So, you know SOME people have hxf crushes or edated before. :P And no, I've never asked my crush if they like me. I don't make the move. But I've been asked about this. What about you?
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So, you know SOME people have hxf crushes or edated before. :P And no, I've never asked my crush if they like me. I don't make the move. But I've been asked about this. What about you?
I guess, but not limited to crushes and love interests. In general I like asking people what they honestly think of me, it builds trust and genuine understanding. I can't seem to be happy unless I understand or know certain things.
Oh, and I'm talking about real life, not e-dating.
I'm not really one for e-dating, I've done it before and it just wasn't really something I was into. I met my current girlfriend 2 years ago at a temp job and it was obvious from the first day that we both liked each other, so luckily for me I never had to ask her lol. But I guess if I was really into someone I would ask them just to put my mind at rest.
in terms of e-dating: i did have a hxf crush very long ago and i didn't tell him and we talked for hours and i really liked him but was too shy to say anything, and then he talked about going to a gig with some girl and i got really jealous and upset and it all came out that i liked him and he liked me and we were together for nearly 3 years irl, like offline we both stopped using hxf really, aw!!! we're still friends now, and you may occasionally see us having ex-lovers tiffs all over the forum, great stuff.
in terms of irl: no. i have the worst opinion of myself and instantly think anyone i like has no reason to like me back and i won't pursue it. infact i generally get scared when people start flirting with me because i think i bore them and end up blanking them.
Ahh, that's me all over. I lack so much confidence and self-esteem and I literally have to ask people why they're talking to me or why they like me because I just don't understand. I think it tends to make people feel very awkward when I do that, like there doesn't necessarily have to be a reason or something. And I probably come across as very cold, which ironically is the exact opposite of what I want to do.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bethie
i've been called a ***** and cold-hearted many times just because i'm so ******* awkward that when someone says something idk i kinda back out in fear that they'll hate me eventually. ugh.Quote:
Originally Posted by Neversoft
im not a full blown e-dater, i met my girlfriend through habbo actually but its not like a habbo/e-relationship (hope that makes sense). but i didnt need to ask her if she liked me as she told me herself, and i wouldnt of asked anyway's cuz i would of felt a) desperate and b) like i was putting pressure on her and that doesnt seem fair to me. on the other hand it would be a way of putting my mind at rest, but i would rather wait a bit and find out in my own time aha
i always go for guys out of my league, lookswise at least, so i'm not stupid enough to ask them. if they do like me though i never believe them.
erm dont think i've asked an 'internet crush' before cause even if they did like them i probably wouldn't do much about it and that'd be completely pointless
Well, I met my ex through clubhabbo and he used to play Habbo (proper used to ebully me lol) so yeah we kind of did like each other and knew it but in all honestly I don't think I'd ever date anybody off Habbo or a Habbo fan site because I didn't like it people always know your business and people constantly asking you stuff blahblahblah it's just all too dramatic and i'd rather not get involved in that way with another person over habbo
i never liked anyone online enough to tell them i like them but if i did i probably wouldn't anyway.
lol no I wouldn't. It's impossible for me to be interested in someone unless I know they like me
Awwww am touchedQuote:
Originally Posted by buttons
Yes obv I have asked such a question that is how relationships occur
The only time I asked someone if they liked me is this person who I met on habbo, then later met irl. I can't actually remember what they replied withh LOL
Irl, no I hate making the first move. D:
i did once tell someone i liked them but they never really responded.
i'm gay so it was like kinda awkward hahahahaha
never again will i make the first move
no cos you'd have to tell them you like them first and i've done that enough times and got rejected!!! the 'latest' guy shows his feeling regardless if i ask or not, but it's not lasted so n v m
um online i've not actually asked it... think it's a bit surreal.
Nope, id be too scared and would be so awkward if they didnt
Never asked my only crush if they liked me back =P
lmao nope because my crush usually asks me first looool