I have once, was good while it lasted but bad move overall - now we only speak a few times a month which is terrible :P
Have you?
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I have once, was good while it lasted but bad move overall - now we only speak a few times a month which is terrible :P
Have you?
probably a thread on this but i did a search and nothing.
my first ~love~ was pretty much my best friend like i was going through a hard time at school and he'd always stick up for me and we were pretty inseparable, he was my closest friend. once we split up we stopped talking which was probably for the best as he wasn't who he was before and at the beginning of the relationship but if we were to see each other again i'm sure we'd be on okay terms. since then 3 guys have been my best friend and they've generally been very camp/sensitive so i feel comfortable around them but each of them have asked me out and its completely ruined the friendship as i wasn't interested in any of them :P i was best friends with a guy in high school for like 4 years and all that's gone because i wouldn't date him. pretty sad as he was a really good friend :/
people will disagree and say it's a bad idea to date a friend as it ruins a friendship but to me a relationship has to be a good friendship too. :) i love going from friendship to something else more than jumping straight in to something.
Did you let her see a picture of you first, or?
And as it happens yes, I grew up with a girl who was my bessie and all throughout our teenage years when there were periods we were both single we'd hook up and I still think of her that way sometimes but I don't think a full on relationship would ever work.
Nah, I didn't date my best friend but we don't talk anymore so it was like we did anyway. He took a music route instead of me just unsure on what to do, we were inseperable in year 7 and at the start of year 8 another girl came into our class and sort of made me her best friend, I didn't mind at the time but I found how vicious and manipulative she was. It wasn't until years later that I realised she might have been the reason me and my ex best friend grew apart, if he sees me now he'll say hi and his brother will always smile at me and greet me too but it's never the same. I would date a best friend in the future but when we were best friends we didn't feel like that at all, people thought we were dating and we were far from that. It's a pity people still can't believe a boy and a girl can be best friends :P.
In a way my boyfriend is my best friend too, he's always there and someone to go to, he means a lot and I know if we were to break up I think it would be hard to talk to him without getting feelings returning (depending on how we broke up).
right so my best friend is also my brothers best friend so that's awkward enough
we went about 6 years of knowing each other with nothing sexual ever happening but obviously the attraction was there, it took an alcohol fuelled might to finally come out.... but it was awful i regret it so much because from that point on things have never been the same we'd act like nothing had happened because that time we were both seeing other people too but every time he was drunk he'd try it on and id just be like nooooooo
bad move, I'd never date him either
Nope cause if we're best friends then it's because I don't feel that way towards them so we're in the friend zone with each other and even if I did have feelings for them, I don't think I'd want to ruin the friendship by suggesting we take it further in case it doesn't work as I did have a friend and I told them I liked them after years of knowing them and things were awkward and we didn't speak for like months afterwards till we talked about it and sorted the situation out.
my best friends are all girls. sad, isn't it? I want a boy best friend wawawaaaaaa :'(
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Originally Posted by GirlNextDoor15
OT: I have in year.. oh God I've forgotten... 8 maybe? We were quite good friends but after it ended it was very awkward and full of hate + rage lol. However, a few yrs later she considers me to be her best friend aha <3 I think she's alright tbh, I do speak to her quite a lot still so yeah.
Don't plan on doing it again though.
Never dated her, but we've always been closer than friends.
Yea his new girlfriend hates me even though it was before her and my boyfriend hates him so we can't even speak anymore lol
2 of the boys I have been out with, we were 'bestfriends' before that and then it just lead on, so yeah I guess I have, but now we never speak, and we havn't since we split up
Sort of but we'd only started talking to each other on christmas 2009 then met on the 1st jan 2010 then started dating on the 6th jan but its been over 2 years now so I'd say he was my best friend.
Nope.
Considering I don't have any male friends or bestfriends and never have had. :P
I wouldn't want to date them anyway. It would most likely ruin something special - our friendship - and I personally feel that at the moment friendship is more important than love.
neverrrrr.
one of the people i did date was just a close friend but like i wouldn't have really said they were my best friend. when we split up it didn't really affect how much we talked at all which was great. i'm still his friend now which is goood. :)
Can't say i've ever had a girl best friend, but I wouldn't like to date a best friend in case it did ever spoil our relationship.
Yeah a while ago, was fun while it lasted, but it ended badly. We went 2 years ignoring each other existed, then when we left school decided to put it behind us and talk again. That was like 2 years ago now, and every time I see her out in a club or w.e. it's always the same thing, she wants to dance with/hug me all the time, give it an hour or 2, couple of drinks, then it gets stupidly emotional. Every single time.
TLDR Yes, was a bad idea, things got weird.
Yeh, well in a way. ended up as sort of **** buddys then became pure hatred for each other. Now we don't talk :/
Yeah, I dated my boy bestfriend in like year 7/8. We never spoke for a while after we split up but we do again now :P
I've never dated a best friend, and I'm glad because I hear some terrible stories of how it can ruin everything :(
I have extremely strong feelings for my best friend, I have done for about 3 or 4 years, I love her with all my heart, not IN love with her though, but I don't know whether I could ever risk losing her just to see if we would work out together.
I started going out with my best friends 4 years ago. Still with her now infact. I have my regrets and I don't. Because it ruined our friendship but started something new and now if we break up, that will be everything gone whereas if we stayed friends we still could be, but I doubt it after 3 years. Best friendship with a girl always = going out or a date tbh lol. I would have been jealous being her best friend and her getting a different boyfriend. Would then mean I would be second best haha. But I love her to pieces now so I can't regret something that made me so happy :-)
Never really had a best friend, more of a circle of best friends and my current girlfriend of nine months is in that group, unfortunately so is my sister.
I really like her for ages, to the point of where my gut felt constantly twisted. It was coming up to my leaving cert last year and I just had to tell her I liked her, it was chewing away on me and I couldn't concentrate on my exams. I really didn't want to tell her because I thought it'd change things between us. She didn't like me back which I wasn't surprised by at all but nothing changed between us, we carried on as we had done before until about three months later she told me she like me too. There was about a month of drama with my sister before we couldn't actually get together (LOL) be we got through it, I love her to bits, but my sister hates it!
I've never had a best friend ;_;
I never dated my best friend but became best friends with my ex after a relationship :)
Mine is still lasting, 9 months.<3
Im dating my best friend now, been together a year and 3 days :D
Yep. I dated a boy I was best friends with and it lasted 2 years. Now we barely speak and he has different best friends that are completely different and I have my best friends who I was best friends with in primary school
It were SO awkward when i went out with my best friend D; althou it lasted like 6months.. but it felt like best mates.. with benefits..