would you rather have sex, with either one person or a lot, or be in love with one person?
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would you rather have sex, with either one person or a lot, or be in love with one person?
Love, without a doubt. Sex is just a bonus.
love omg. idk, i'd much rather feel loved than just have sex with someone. i know others may disagree but like, love to me is really important and would probably bring me happiness. virgin for life tho
and love could and probably would lead to sex. :P
awwww :)
i suppose i'd prefer love but i've only ever been with one person,like in a proper relationship, and that's been since i was 14.
i tink it'd be weird to be with someone else, haha
Love, then if it leads to sex it is meaningful and with someone you love.
im not sure. sex and love both make you feel good, but in different ways. love will make you feel good about yourself, because the person you love will love you back for who you are. sex will just make you feel good. and as georgia said love will lead to sex when the couple are ready anyway :) x
Love, sex never really bothered me + over these past few weeks I've realised how much I need love lol. Thought I'd last without it but I'm only 16 + desperately want it :'(
Love definitely.
I've never had anyone love me back, so itd be really nice to be in a relationship and be loved and feel safe when you're around them etc.
Plus as others said, when you're ready, it often leads to sex.
I'd opt for love more as at the end of the day the person who loves will have that love a lot longer than they would have that pleasure from the sex. They would benefit more from love with protection from.harms way, having that someone always looking out for them and being there whereas sex could end in one person feeling used if it was a one off so to speak and although sex may feel good love can make you feel even better.
Who's the one who put sex lol.
I put love btw, no brainer.
Love! I couldn't have sex with someone who didn't love me
even i put love, come on now!!!!
Sex is Sex, love is meaningful.
What's love got to do, got to with it. But serious love doesn't exist this question is null and void.
what's love but a second hand emotionnnnQuote:
Originally Posted by RockyHorror
naaa. love exists imo. so i'm gonna go for love while u can enjoy ya sex
To me sex and love are very different things and pretty incomparable
But ofc I'd prefer love if it was handed to me on a plate haha
sex with randomers is sort of pointless, yeh its fun and exciting but its got no chemistry, love and sex is where its at. Just finding a girl whos not got a screw lose is a completely other matter
Loveeeeeee, my first was with the girl I am still with years later.
Girls have dropped the hint for me to have sex with them but I have love, and having sex with multiple girls doesn't even come close to having someone you can trust and love, and who loves you.
god this question is annoying lol
why cant i have sex with loads of people and still be in love with one person ;lll
anyway id pick romantic love, being with only one person, over sleeping about cause i get presents AND sex and less chance of stds
love definitely. i don't think i'd want to have sex with someone who i didn't love, so yeah.
what if the person you loved had aids....Quote:
Originally Posted by buttons
I'd definitely rather be in love rather than have sex 100%. Sex with a person is just a bonus.
Sex is sex... you can have sex with any random **** and it will mean nothing.
But then theres love, its total diffrent you brainwash yourself into thinking you want to be with someone forever..
Untill they put there hand over your heart and pull it out...
Sex can be with virtually anyone but love is sharing something unique with another person that really wouldn't occur with the majority of the population, so love any day to be honest.
Hmm. To break the flow, sex. You can be hurt bad with love. If the other person does not love you back, or it can drive you insane, thinking/trying to show affection constantly about/towards a certain person that doesn't love you back or whatevs..
And with sex, its sex. Whether it means nothing or not you won't get hurt (as bad) imo. If you're attracted to them then you can keep going back to that one person... and if not, you're free to move on.
Love... when its found.. Sex is like sweets.. its enjoyable but not needed :)