Habbox Abuse

In one of my events tonight. I witnessed Habbox people giving severe abuse to another Habbox member.

So, I do what I would do for anyone who is the victum and stuck up for him and ban the person from my room.

I don't find it's necessary to actually go looking for this one member to give him abuse. You don't know what he's been through. It's not a good thing to give Cyber bulling over the internet. It can effect so many people in so many different ways. People commit suicide because of it and these people are actually forcing people to the state they have nothing left, so they turn to suicide. It's not on. Everyone is the same in this world. We all do the same living thing, every day. So, what if people are, dark skinned, fat, thin, ugly, small, whatever. Who cares?! We are all inteligent and pretty in our own ways!

Why give people so much crap to the fact they hate themselves. Hate the fact they can't walk out side, Because they feel feared by people looking at them for these unnessessary reasons that you bring.

How would you like it, if one day, your life fell apart and everyone turned against you? How would you honestly feel? I can tell you know. You would hate it. And would most likely run to the first person, who would be there for you. So, Why do it?

Think, before bulling. You're killing the innocent people, who want to live and enjoy life.

Seriously. Stop this bulling.

I don't care if I don't get any replies back to this, Atleast I got my word out.

Thanks for taking your time to read this.

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Maybe so but I think you're just considering the worst case scenario.

you forgot to add gingers to that list

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Were these people actually giving abuse to this person because of how they feel about themselves? That's the gist I'm getting and it's disgusting. I don't agree with your statement about everyone being intelligent and pretty in their own ways because some people really do have nothing going for them but if you know that someone has mental health problems you don't attack them for it

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Originally Posted by Samanfa

Maybe so but I think you're just considering the worst case scenario.

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agreed with this tbh

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Originally Posted by Samanfa

Maybe so but I think you're just considering the worst case scenario.

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I spoke with this person after. I've seen the abuse that has been given to him over the time he's been in Habbox.
He's showed me them all.

He's also been to the case of suicide and has attempted it.

I'm not jumping into anything. I just don't think, Member of the same clan, should be jumping at each other, and going around trying to find them either. Just to give themselves entertainment.

I think some people just need to realise you can escape cyber bullying with the click of a button.

You havent seen anything


I agree that many members get abuse at habbox, but they also give out abuse so i have no pity, if you see what i mean.

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Originally Posted by :Cerys

You havent seen anything


I agree that many members get abuse at habbox, but they also give out abuse so i have no pity, if you see what i mean.

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I agree with this. Some of the people who get abuse are really not helping themselves since they also give abuse.

But saying that, I've met some quiet people getting abuse for no reason whatsoever. The best way to stop it is to ignore it I think, they'll eventually get tired of getting no response.

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Originally Posted by :Cerys

You havent seen anything


I agree that many members get abuse at habbox, but they also give out abuse so i have no pity, if you see what i mean.

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Bit of a generalisation. It can be applied to many, but not to all.

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Originally Posted by :Cerys

You havent seen anything


I agree that many members get abuse at habbox, but they also give out abuse so i have no pity, if you see what i mean.

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I've seen enough and been through enough. to know when enough is enough.

But at the end of the day, people are so quick to judge people on what they hear. They never know what that person has gone through to make them the way that they are. They never to take in to consideration on what they say might affect other people. They don't know what they have been though, what they are going though, and what they will have to deal with in the future. Everyone has problems at some point in their life. But when immature little kids hear about it they take it too far. Not thinking about what they are saying and how it's going to effect people. No-one is perfect. People come on here to enjoy themselves. Not to be given abuse. It's unfair, and in some cases, push some people over the edge. Look at what happened to Amanda Todd, She got bullied. What's to say that people who get abuse on here don't think about it. Its ridiculous. No-one deserves it. Habbo is meant to be a game where people can enjoy themselves. People need to grow up and think about their actions. I don't have anything else to say, I just hope it gets sorted.

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Okay, to start off I agree with this thread 100%, and to be honest it's sad to say I see it all over Habbox . It's honestly terrible that as soon as a person can go into a room for example the HxHD or an event, and then so many people start being abusive, not saying any names. I've witnessed much of the abuse, and I actually always wonder how people can be so mean, for no reason. The abuse here is so bad that listeners are even noticing, and the abuse has also caused many people to leave, or not even want to apply. It's really a shame.

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Originally Posted by BAMitsKristyy

Okay, to start off I agree with this thread 100%, and to be honest it's sad to say I see it all over Habbox . It's honestly terrible that as soon as a person can go into a room for example the HxHD or an event, and then so many people start being abusive, not saying any names. I've witnessed much of the abuse, and I actually always wonder how people can be so mean, for no reason. The abuse here is so bad that listeners are even noticing, and the abuse has also caused many people to leave, or not even want to apply. It's really a shame.

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Thank you! Atleast there is someone in this community who cares.

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Originally Posted by Cassiieee

Thank you! Atleast there is someone in this community who cares.

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Yes! & I know exactly who you're talking about. But either way it's not just about anyone in particular, abuse shouldn't be going on period. The worst part of it all is staff who are suppose to be setting an example are the ones giving the abuse to other people.

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Originally Posted by Cassiieee

I spoke with this person after. I've seen the abuse that has been given to him over the time he's been in Habbox.
He's showed me them all.

He's also been to the case of suicide and has attempted it.

I'm not jumping into anything. I just don't think, Member of the same clan, should be jumping at each other, and going around trying to find them either. Just to give themselves entertainment.

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You're not basing it off a majority, it was one incident you're directly associating this with.

Most people, dont like to really let anyone know they are being abused, some think it a sign of weakness, others that it wont solve the problem. just sometimes gotta give a little push to get them to speak up

there is easy ways to prevent yourself from being bullied in habbo. i think a lot of people are bullied but they just choose to ignore it, it is that easy. you can easily click ignore, you can report them and you can click emergency exit. habbo have provided enough things to help you with to stop it. obviously, in the first place they shouldn't do it, but it's impossible to stop all the bullies in the world 'cus it is never going to stop so you can complain all you want, but it really won't stop it as much as you want it to.

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Originally Posted by Samanfa

You're not basing it off a majority, it was one incident you're directly associating this with.

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Samanfa to be honest I think this is majority, I've seen DJs, listeners, or other people all over Habbox get abuse, not just one person in particular. Of course some get more abuse then others, but that doesn't change the fact that there is more than 1 person getting abuse.

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But at the end of the day, people are so quick to judge people on what they hear. They never know what that person has gone through to make them the way that they are. They never to take in to consideration on what they say might affect other people. They don't know what they have been though, what they are going though, and what they will have to deal with in the future. Everyone has problems at some point in their life. But when immature little kids hear about it they take it too far. Not thinking about what they are saying and how it's going to effect people. No-one is perfect. People come on here to enjoy themselves. Not to be given abuse. It's unfair, and in some cases, push some people over the edge. Look at what happened to Amanda Todd, She got bullied. What's to say that people who get abuse on here don't think about it. Its ridiculous. No-one deserves it. Habbo is meant to be a game where people can enjoy themselves. People need to grow up and think about their actions. I don't have anything else to say, I just hope it gets sorted.

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can i just say something about the amanda todd thing, she kinda deserved it. she was a bit of a *****

It's not hard to not come online if it's really getting someone down? Or go to a different room or put the person on ignore? There are tools in place available for people to use, so it really shouldn't have to escalate to suicide thoughts or whatever. If it's so bad to the point of suicide there's obviously other issues & the person needs professional help, it's not just down to Habbo, for it to get to that stage though is beyond me and I don't understand how someone would let it get that bad. However it does happen but how many times do you really hear of it?!
@Samanfa;

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Originally Posted by deathbot20

can i just say something about the amanda todd thing, she kinda deserved it. she was a bit of a *****

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No one deserves to get abuse, or even have to even think about killing themselves.

Someone deserved to die? Yes she was in the wrong. But she still didn't deserve to die....

people gonna hate, the world is a harsh place. the moment you realize it is the moment you dont really give a **** about the opinions of others. thus is how i go through life, not giving a **** about anything

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Originally Posted by BAMitsKristyy

Samanfa to be honest I think this is majority, I've seen DJs, listeners, or other people all over Habbox get abuse, not just one person in particular. Of course some get more abuse then others, but that doesn't change the fact that there is more than 1 person getting abuse.

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No I'm saying with the OP she was basing it off one person, not that it doesn't happen a lot at Habbox, sorry if it wasn't clear :).

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Originally Posted by deathbot20

people gonna hate, the world is a harsh place. the moment you realize it is the moment you dont really give a **** about the opinions of others. thus is how i go through life, not giving a **** about anything

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That's your opinion. People want love, friends, and happiness. By the sounds of it, you're happy living life the way you want it in a dark room, pushing people around because you don't care.

People have feelings and care.

It's easy to say you can brush off the comments when you're older, but at a younger age you do take things way too seriously. I know I used to take little things way too seriously. Of course you have the right to stand up for yourself, but it probably won't solve the problem by heating the argument. Best way is to ignore them and report them so they can get some sort of reality check. Truth is they probably have problems they need to resolve themselves.

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Originally Posted by deathbot20

people gonna hate, the world is a harsh place. the moment you realize it is the moment you dont really give a **** about the opinions of others. thus is how i go through life, not giving a **** about anything

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I know that you are expressing your opinion, but that is really harsh, and I'm sure that the people getting the abuse see how harsh the world can be, however that doesn't make the abuse they get right.

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Originally Posted by Cassiieee

That's your opinion. People want love, friends, and happiness. By the sounds of it, you're happy living life the way you want it in a dark room, pushing people around because you don't care.

People have feelings and care.

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oh? i sit in a dark room yes because i hate going into the light. but pushing people around? no i have never pushed a person around. i know people have feelings and care, but hey ive been pushed around my whole life so i have the right to be cold and un caring because it sure as hell beats faking a smile, or killing myself

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people gonna hate, the world is a harsh place. the moment you realize it is the moment you dont really give a **** about the opinions of others. thus is how i go through life, not giving a **** about anything

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You being a terrible person does not negate other people doing terrible things

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

You being a terrible person does not negate other people doing terrible things

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Terrible is a matter of perception, for i am not terrible for having a belief, would that make anyone with a belief that you do not share a terrible person?

Someone who suggests that a child deserves to die for totally nonviolent actions makes them a terrible person

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Someone who suggests that a child deserves to die for totally nonviolent actions makes them a terrible person

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A human being who killed themselves for being a **** gets, praised as a saint by hundreds of thousands, while a boy who hangs himself in the middle of the night because he was beaten by his stepfather every night gets nothing special? yea some great world we live in. so what if im a terrible person to you, the world made me this way. and she was not a child she was a capable member of society who had the free will to choose a different path.

id rather be a monster of a human than be fake.

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Originally Posted by deathbot20

A human being who killed themselves for being a **** gets, praised as a saint by hundreds of thousands, while a boy who hangs himself in the middle of the night because he was beaten by his stepfather every night gets nothing special? yea some great world we live in. so what if im a terrible person to you, the world made me this way. and she was not a child she was a capable member of society who had the free will to choose a different path.

id rather be a monster of a human than be fake.

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Who's being a 'fake' here? Enlighten me.

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so what if im a terrible person to you, the world made me this way.

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Yeah sure, whatever.

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thus is how i go through life, not giving a **** about anything

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Seriously? Good luck with that, we'll see how that works out for you.

I mean really? Just listen to yourself...

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Originally Posted by Jake

Who's being a 'fake' here? Enlighten me.



Yeah sure, whatever.



Seriously? Good luck with that, we'll see how that works out for you.

I mean really? Just listen to yourself...

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do you want to know why im like this? allow me to enlighten you my friend

most of my life, i have been abused physically and mentally, this year alone i have had 7 of my friends kill themselves 4 of which i have witnessed, i suffer depression, i have tried to kill myself before, everyday i want to kill myself.
want to know how my friends killed themselves let me tell you

friend 1: hung themselves as i visited
friend 2: jumped off a bridge we were walking across
friend 3: hung themselves over night
friend 4: shot themself in the head with a handgun
those were the ones i saw
the others were hangings.

i never knew why they did it. i never will, i wish to join them most days. but i decide that i will when my time comes.
and i not saying anyone is fake im saying i would rather be myself than try to fake being someone im not, because tbh the world needs more monsters in it.

my views are my own and if you do not agree then so be it, im not going to try make you understand.

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Originally Posted by deathbot20

do you want to know why im like this? allow me to enlighten you my friend

most of my life, i have been abused physically and mentally, this year alone i have had 7 of my friends kill themselves 4 of which i have witnessed, i suffer depression, i have tried to kill myself before, everyday i want to kill myself.
want to know how my friends killed themselves let me tell you

friend 1: hung themselves as i visited
friend 2: jumped off a bridge we were walking across
friend 3: hung themselves over night
friend 4: shot themself in the head with a handgun
those were the ones i saw
the others were hangings.

i never knew why they did it. i never will, i wish to join them most days. but i decide that i will when my time comes.
and i not saying anyone is fake im saying i would rather be myself than try to fake being someone im not, because tbh the world needs more monsters in it.

my views are my own and if you do not agree then so be it, im not going to try make you understand.

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Anyway, abuse on here and Habbo is far more common than it should be. That's what happens when you put a teenager behind a screen they can hide behind, they'll make people feel bad about themselves because they can get away with it scot-free. I've had horrible experiences on here that really affect me and it's taken me a long time to be able to deal with them and just put it behind me, only really happened since coming to uni and meeting really close friends here.

The only thing you can do is report the Habbo player to moderators, put them on ignore and quit the game, or report Habbox member (with evidence) to higher members of staff, who will take the necessary action. Noone should suffer in silence.

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oh? you think i would make all that up, yes i have made false hoods, but you have not seen the things i have seen, done the things i have done. i wouldnt lie about suicide, not when i have tried to kill myself, not when i have lost so much to it. so if your going to say im lying, i say come speak to me irl. come talk to my friends irl, ask them how well do they know me, and they will answer "not very well" because i dont want them to know what i feel and not what i do, i have broken my arm punching walls to get all the hate out of me, i dont like who i am, but i live with it because im not going to change anytime soon, so if your going to judge my life because i have told a couple lies once, thats okay, cause you dont know me. and you never will because you a blind to understanding.

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oh? you think i would make all that up, yes i have made false hoods, but you have not seen the things i have seen, done the things i have done. i wouldnt lie about suicide, not when i have tried to kill myself, not when i have lost so much to it. so if your going to say im lying, i say come speak to me irl. come talk to my friends irl, ask them how well do they know me, and they will answer "not very well" because i dont want them to know what i feel and not what i do, i have broken my arm punching walls to get all the hate out of me, i dont like who i am, but i live with it because im not going to change anytime soon, so if your going to judge my life because i have told a couple lies once, thats okay, cause you dont know me. and you never will because you a blind to understanding.

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It seems to me you're just begging attention. Take your signature for example, is there any need for that? It's absolutely ridiculous and just makes you look like an idiot. I recommend you get some professional help & get out of the friendship circle that you're in, they're obviously all suicidal too which isn't helping anything. If you have any left that is.