This thread is full of so called 'phobias' when they're not, when I went to Scarborough last month I had a long conversation about phobias and irrational fears for some reason and it really made me think about them differently.
Those who have a phobia of heights - if you're on the edge of a cliff you have the rational fear you're going to fall most probably therefore it isn't really a phobia if we all react the same in the given scenario.
I used to believe I had a phobia of death, when in reality I think more people have the fear of how they're going to die, thus the phobias will have their own name.
I have no phobias, but only fears, I'm not scared of spiders, although I am a little about them crawling into my mouth through the night and cutting me off from breathing - so I do still have that fear of death that most will have, it doesn't make it a phobia as I believe I'd die that way which scares me, the same way as I fear of drowning, burning alive, being shot, stabbed or having a disease.
I swear this thread was made not too long back either, so simple searching could have just added to the previous one.
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Skandair; you're the main example of this, you
do not have a phobia of spoons, you are scared of what they'll do to you, not the actual spoons themselves therefore it's a fear.
Sorry for going on, but that's the reason some of your long lists aren't - those who said kissing others because they think something will go wrong is a fear too :P.