Hi.. I was just wondering what your reaction would be if your child came out as gay. How would you react, would you accept them or disown them? What are your views?
Jw. :8
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Hi.. I was just wondering what your reaction would be if your child came out as gay. How would you react, would you accept them or disown them? What are your views?
Jw. :8
I would gladly accept a gay child, or a bi child, or lesbian etc. I honestly wouldn't care of their sexuality :P
its a shame a baby cant be spotted as gay while it still possible to abort it
i wouldnt accept it but luckily by time it comes out as gay it is able to fend for itself and i can disown it with little to no hassle
lol dont even talk about that
first of all whilst it is at school i would chuck all of its belongings into a tip and sanitize the room
i would wait till they got home and wait till they went upstairs. i would run up there and grab the little **** by its ear and pull it down the stairs and chuck it out the door.
Don't see why not..
My mum has accepted me, and I don't see why she wouldn't *unless she was homophobic obv*
If my child was homosexual, it isn't directly affecting me so why is it any of my business xD
You're not straight?Quote:
Originally Posted by :Cerys
wouldnt even let the child in question back in the door of my home to get dragged down the stairs tbh. once they have let me down like that they r NEVER stepping in my door again and thats a promiseQuote:
Originally Posted by myles
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Originally Posted by Intersocial
where have you been for the past 2 years mr hayden!?!??!?!?!
I have legit always thought you were, are you lesbian or bi then cause I have no idea?Quote:
Originally Posted by :Cerys
Firstly, I'd take them to church and hopefully get them removed of their sins. If that doesn't work, they'll be sent to a "curing" camp till the disease goes away, until they come home with a wife and kids I'd be happier to not see them again. The embarrassment of having a homosexual son/daughter disgusts me and it would be better for the pair of us if we didn't see each other again as it goes against my religious views/ways. The thought of two men/women together is putrid.
bi.Quote:
Originally Posted by Intersocial
i think you're very slow tbh ;P
o/t; theres nothing wrong with it guysss, it doesn't affect you so why should you care?!
whatttttttQuote:
Originally Posted by :Cerys
and yea lol
what omg no it's cause u had a crush on a guy and I just assumed you were straight and didn't ever think you were bi :(Quote:
Originally Posted by :Cerys
A person is a person. Their sexuality shouldn't decide if you accept them or not. If my child came out as gay by or w.e I'd accept them, yes. They could one day be very successful [like Derren]
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Originally Posted by paramore
what was the what for. not even talking to you ;///
+ hayden, that crush is still ongoing... ;s
I HAVE DONE SOMETHING ABOUT IT THOUGH. Be proud for me.
I have nothing against any sexual orientation, and I'm aware that people can change that view when it comes to their own children, but I believe if I were to have a child that was gay I would accept them.
I've always been a strong believer of the 'if it makes you happy, do it' kind of lifestyle - and I'd like my child(ren) in the future to be the same. I don't want them to conform and be pulled down by society's expectations and outlook.
Whom is Darren?Quote:
Originally Posted by iUniversal
Whatever floats their boat lol. Even if I wasn't comfortable with it I wouldn't want to just "disown" them there and then on the spot. I would hope that we had a close enough relationship for me to be able to talk to them about it. Not to repel them from being gay, but just so I could bring myself to terms with it.
i wouldn't care what their sexual orientation was and like charlie i hope my kids would feel comfortable enough to talk to me about this kinda stuff and hopefully by the time i have kids (if i have kids) everyone will be accepting or atleast act like it and stop being homophobic so people don't have to worry about coming out
A psychological illusionist.Quote:
Originally Posted by CornbixID
O/T - I'm gay so it would only seem right too accept them.
This is the 21st century.
Humans have grown stronger, we have gained technology and power. Wars have happened. Good and bad have happened. But we are in the beginning of starting a great future, but honestly religion stops this.
Religion can be good for many reasons, but it also causes many bad things. One of God's rules is to not judge @CornbixID; and @myles;, perhaps you're the one's that need to be sent to "a curing camp" for your wrong.
If being gay/les/bi is wrong, let God, if he/she/it exists, to be the one who judges. Not you. You do not have the right.
And for those who think it without being religious, we are in the 2000s now. Get over it.
Animals aren't always straight either, y'know? There's nothing wrong with it. Just like there's nothing wrong with having a different skin color, voice or whatever.
If my child came out as gay then I wouldn't have a problem with it so long as they weren't extremely camp or extremely butch. Regardless though, I would never disown them.
Where in theQuote:
Originally Posted by Mk,
tenties lol
what would it be called?
the teens?
cuz like
'80 - eightys
'90 - nightys
2000 - 2 thousands
anyway
i agree with u !!!!!!
2000-2009 is the Noughties.Quote:
Originally Posted by paramore
2010-2012 is the Inbetweenies
2013-2019 is the Teenies.
It would work lmao.
I've grown up knowing that if I had turned out to be lesbian or bisexual then my parents would accept me no matter what, when and if I have children I will always adapt that belief as well - they can't help what sexual orientation they come out as, nor can anyone else, with my parents I believe one of mine isn't completely straight, so again I think that's also a reason why they would accept me. If someone wouldn't accept them, then that is their belief and I also believe as long as someone isn't ramming someone else's belief down another ones throat e.g. someone telling me that all homosexuals, bisexuals etc. are wrong then I believe it should be fine and is fine to believe what you want. I also don't judge my friends who aren't straight, family, work mates they're all just another person on Earth and all being the same would make it extremely boring. It's obvious the beliefs are being changed slightly as gay marriage has been passed, it is a shame not everyone will be ok with homosexuality or the like, but like I said, it's their beliefs and we shouldn't try to change them.
I would totally freak out tbh, didn't even know I had a kid in the first place
Yeah I would, as long as they play good tennis I'm easy whatever they are
Wow, I think exactly the same way. But remember, My church's doors are always opened for people trying to change.Quote:
Originally Posted by CornbixID
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You can't change them. :LQuote:
Originally Posted by lucaskf390
Never said I can, conversion comes from within.Quote:
Originally Posted by paramore
You meaning everyone and everything.Quote:
Originally Posted by lucaskf390
If you did ''convert'' them, then they wouldn't of been gay in the first place.
I don't think people should be pressured to change what. They don't need to convert addgsxeas
Maybe we have to wait for the22nd century to become advanced..
It wouldn't change my view of the child if I had one lol
I don't convert, they convert themselves.Quote:
Originally Posted by paramore
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i wouldn't be bothered about their sexuality lol
wait do you actually think you can like... ungay people
pray it away
do they read the bible so many times that they're just 'cURED' ?????????
if i had a gay kid, they would end up being my favorite
I he or she (bi, lesbian, pan, trans) would become gay I wouldn't mind, as long as he success in life and becomes a happy man, then who the hell cares about his preferences.
So: Yes.
I would yes but I would find it very difficult. My family is built on a strong non-gay attitude and I'm sure it wouldn't be a popular decision if my son chose to be gay but it's one of these things you learn to accept. Especially if you love your kids.
Interestingly enough I'd find it easier to accept that my daughter was a lesbian then if my son were gay. I suppose that's because I'm not attracted to men and don't see how anyone could be! Women are fit! .. Maybe I'm just being narrow-minded :)
To be honest they are who they are agree with @Empired;
I would certainly accept them tbh, I know how hard it is hiding that I'm bi from everyone irl and I really would want them to have all the support they desired.