"Should ugly gay men give up?"

I know the title seems a little harsh but it really applies for everyone with different sexual orientations.

If a gay man is ugly, should he just give up trying to find love. If you think logically, there is not really any point in continuing as you are ugly and other men will not find you attractive. Seeing as there is a wider range of straight women, shouldn't he just turn straight and find another ugly, hopeless female.

TELL ME UR THOUGHTS it was a raging discussion with me and a few other people!!!

Lmfao
they should move up here, the gays here are such desperate horndogs that even the 'ugliest' gays get laid
never give up ppl!!!

yup! more chance of finding someone to sexy with if they turn straight since there are more women than gay men which increases their chances.

also i think hot straight guys should turn gay as its not right they put their penis in a mutilated looking hole + more hotties for us then

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Originally Posted by sex

yup! more chance of finding someone to sexy with if they turn straight since there are more women than gay men which increases their chances.

also i think hot straight guys should turn gay as they its not right they put their penis in a mutilated looking hole + more hotties for us then

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the vagina is cleaner than the anus though dont you think?

lots of people think they're ugly but conventionally aren't

also lots of people don't care about looks

i dont get how you couldn't care less about looks. i wouldn't wanna marry someone who is ugly and see them everyday for the rest of my life sorry. even if they are the nicest person on earth they need to at least be average looking

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Originally Posted by vls

the vagina is cleaner than the anus though dont you think?

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still looks uglier

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Originally Posted by sex

yup! more chance of finding someone to sexy with if they turn straight since there are more women than gay men which increases their chances.

also i think hot straight guys should turn gay as its not right they put their penis in a mutilated looking hole + more hotties for us then

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women offer a poop shoot as well but normal peeps dont want poo on their peen

a little off topic but whenever I see a dude with a girl way out of his league I give him a little slow clap and a tip of the hat from a safe distance

-Insert it's not all about the looks comment here-

u can always get plastic surgery

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Originally Posted by vls

I know the title seems a little harsh but it really applies for everyone with different sexual orientations.

If a gay man is ugly, should he just give up trying to find love. If you think logically, there is not really any point in continuing as you are ugly and other men will not find you attractive. Seeing as there is a wider range of straight women, shouldn't he just turn straight and find another ugly, hopeless female.

TELL ME UR THOUGHTS it was a raging discussion with me and a few other people!!!

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You make it sound as if there are only 10 gays in the UK. There are loads of ugly gay guys just like there are loads of ugly straight guys. Sure it might be a bit harder if you're gay, but you shouldn't have to give up.

Also it's more acceptable for gays to groom themselves well and even wear makeup, whilst it's not so much for straights. So if you're gay and ugly then you can probably improve your looks more than a straight guy can.

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Originally Posted by lawrawrrr

lots of people think they're ugly but conventionally aren't

also lots of people don't care about looks

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Who doesn't care about looks? Sure as you get older people value other things more and more, but i don't think anybody actualy ever stops caring about looks. From what i hear though, money>looks once people get to their mid twenties. Women in particular seem to opt for the not so good looking doctor, over the handsome brick layer.

what is this thread
no ugly people should not give up

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Originally Posted by Eoin247

You make it sound as if there are only 10 gays in the UK. There are loads of ugly gay guys just like there are loads of ugly straight guys. Sure it might be a bit harder if you're gay, but you shouldn't have to give up.

Also it's more acceptable for gays to groom themselves well and even wear makeup, whilst it's not so much for straights. So if you're gay and ugly then you can probably improve your looks more than a straight guy can.



Who doesn't care about looks? Sure as you get older people value other things more and more, but i don't think anybody actualy ever stops caring about looks. From what i hear though, money>looks once people get to their mid twenties. Women in particular seem to opt for the not so good looking doctor, over the handsome brick layer.

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but is this true or is it not
most gays are fat and wear glasses

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Originally Posted by vls

but is this true or is it not
most gays are fat and wear glasses

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If you're ugly because you're fat and wear glasses, then surely going to the gym and buying contacts would be easier than giving up?

Anyway I don't know any fat gays. I know a few who need glasses but they either wear contacts or wear glasses that actually look good on them (i.e not the stereotype IT guy ones).

That said, i don't know a ton of gays.

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Originally Posted by Eoin247

You make it sound as if there are only 10 gays in the UK. There are loads of ugly gay guys just like there are loads of ugly straight guys. Sure it might be a bit harder if you're gay, but you shouldn't have to give up.

Also it's more acceptable for gays to groom themselves well and even wear makeup, whilst it's not so much for straights. So if you're gay and ugly then you can probably improve your looks more than a straight guy can.



Who doesn't care about looks? Sure as you get older people value other things more and more, but i don't think anybody actualy ever stops caring about looks. From what i hear though, money>looks once people get to their mid twenties. Women in particular seem to opt for the not so good looking doctor, over the handsome brick layer.

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I can genuinely say that I don't give a toss about looks, the only thing that gets to me is when people are CONSTANTLY like "oh you deserve better looking". I see beauty in personality, honestly do. When someone's an idiot I actually see them as less attractive.


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There's a difference between saying personality making a difference (which it can) and claiming to literally not take notice of the aesthetic (which is nonsense). Especially if you're someone has at least two times recently stated a physical preference

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I can genuinely say that I don't give a toss about looks, the only thing that gets to me is when people are CONSTANTLY like "oh you deserve better looking". I see beauty in personality, honestly do. When someone's an idiot I actually see them as less attractive.on phone xx

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That's pretty amazing if true. But I haven't ever heard anybody say what you've just said irl. Also you mentioned something else about why people care about looks. I know a lot of people that care more about their friend's opinion on a person than their own. I remember once in a club this girl i was talking to in the smoking area went over to a group of girls and then came back over to me. She told me a few days later that she had gone over to her friends to ask their opinion on me. She freely admitted that she wouldn't have come back to talk to me if her friends didn't like how i looked!

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That's pretty amazing if true. But I haven't ever heard anybody say what you've just said irl. Also you mentioned something else about why people care about looks. I know a lot of people that care more about their friend's opinion on a person than their own. I remember once in a club this girl i was talking to in the smoking area went over to a group of girls and then came back over to me. She told me a few days later that she had gone over to her friends to ask their opinion on me. She freely admitted that she wouldn't have come back to talk to me if her friends didn't like how i looked!

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proof on how u look or ur lying

If I was to answer this topic then I would say not give up but it certainly becomes a lot more harder to find a partner or sexy times as usually gay people (from what I have experienced and I admittedly do this myself) will only go out or sleep with some attractive lol.

oh god shut up if you are saying looks don't matter. they're literally the most important thing everyone looks in one another

anyway they shouldn't give up, might get lucky idk

No they shouldn't omg are you telling me to give up <\3

Nobody should ever give up. There's someone out there for everyone!

Just go for another ugly person, problem solved. everyone is happy.

Looks are such a teenage worry... gay or straight

Frankly every single person has a different perspective on who is ugly less good looking and who is smoking hot.

So your post is really irrelevant for example I think @Grig; is smoking hot whilst @yoshi19952; to be ugly but 90% of the hxl think josh is smoking hot and 90% of Hxl think grig is uggo.









names purely used an example to portray my point sorry boys... :P

i have given up my search for love due to this thread :(

yes they should
i have :)

also I think it depends on the person

theres been girls my mates have said they think aren't attracted to but I've loved

I don't even know If I should take any threads on this place serious no more. You may find someone ugly but another person may find them attractive etc etc. So no they shouldn't just give up like that.

I believe that everyone will find someone! And as I've mentioned elsewhere, everyone has different levels of appreciation.. someone ridiculously hot to one person could be the ugliest thing another has ever seen. *cough* ryan gosling is yuck.
They shouldn't give up. :)

Oh god why Joshua? Lol! But seriously? People Think I'm hot? I Feel Special :P

In my opinion, gay men go for any man that is gay lol, only of their got a stick to ride on it doesn't matter to them about looks lol


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There must be someone out there that finds them attractive. Lol.

Well, gay men in general have low odds and often die alone (can't find BBC article for this atm) for a number of factors. So obviously if you aren't the best looking creature then it'll be even harder than if you were straight, and that's without taking into account the gay 'culture' too where many of them don't settle down.

It's not popular to point out but hey, it's the truth.

Even though they might think they are ugly/ other people may think they are ugly, there is still someone for them.

this thread kinda reminds me of this twilight zone episode

https://encrypted-tbn1.gstatic.com/i...L5jhumc7CQMpIw