Mine aren't really.
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Mine aren't really.
Not with me, they wouldn't dare but my dad has double standards with my sister. the usual "girls can't.../girls shouldn't...." macho nonsense
Yes. they say if i live under their roof i have to live with their rules. Which is understandable to a point, but my parents are extreamly strict.
nah they're so laid back they're almost horizontal
my mum isn't but i think my stepdad is, especially with my sister anyway
Nope! Always let me be a free little bird
erm mum had control over me because i learned being a little bobba = punishment. not to the extent of hitting me or starving me or w.e but just disciplining me like I should have been, Internet taken away, not being allowed to go out with friends, made to write an apology letter to the school for graffiti, forced to look in a field for an hour after throwing away her money lol. used to think she was unfair but that's cause my friends had parents who didnt/couldn't discipline them so they weren't punished for doing things they shouldn't have done. so yh she had control through punishment cause stopped me from skiving classes, lying to her, being a bobba to ppl at school or online (like fbook n bebo which i kinda resent as wasn't allowed to defend myself against bullies and took me ages to begin defending myself) but she always gave me my freedom to do what I wanted, hang out with who i want, study what i want, go where i want etc as long as i was respectful and good.
still got my freedom but still punished in some fashion if I disagree with her ways of doing things but yh gotta try be civil whilst i live under her roof, her roof her rules
Not at all, they allow me to make my own decisions and if it's the wrong one then I learn from my mistakes. When I was younger they were a bit and I'm glad for that.
Urr my mum, not so much. My dad is a little more, trying to mold me how he wanted his kids to be. He always says he's proud of me and my brothers, which he might be, but that doesn't stop him wanting his desired "dream child" :P.
my mum was always vbery nncontriolling when i was pavery litlte nd tlike woulddd alwayts stop me throm growing ougt with so called frends but yea sh's got a lttle less and ctually wants me to soshalise now
Depends.
They were pretty controlling when younger, but i'm an adult now so yeah.
Wouldn't be aiming to go into law if they weren't
no its great they let me do what i want usually and dont have a problem if i go out all night or for a few days
they wont like worry or anything cause they trust me i guess
Nah not really but they do like to know if I am going to be home or not so I tell them where I am if I'm gone for a night or so
My dads' not. But my mum can be over protective sometimes.
Not so much anymore since they let me get on with what I want to do, but they can still be quite intrusive at times.
SO bad. Despite the fact I'm 20 when I'm home they want to know exactly what I'm doing every second of the day...
It depends.
Not really, just some norms they conform to
Yes very much so.. It's normally their way or the highway.
Nope, not at all
Not at all.
Not in the slightest :)
Yeah they can be really overprotective and stuff too. I went away for a few days last summer to meet some people and they kept calling me every few hours to check what I was doing sigh
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no, my mums quite lax about things but if she can see me constantly ******* up like when i kept getting really drunk and losing all m stuff she'll threaten to kick me out if i don't clean up my act
other than that we're totally fine, it's as if she's just a live in landlord as opposed to my mum
oh my mum is the same, even tho iv travelled to my bfs like 8 times I have to text her as soon as he picks me up but after tht she just text me every few days ask how i amQuote:
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same when im going anywhere even with friends got to txt her tell her i got there safely
no just let me get on with my life
they can be but i think they just worry sometimes i dont even get it half the time theres a big wide world out there though so i get that but im a bloody adult and i know when to get my own back irl but they just worry pisses me off
My mum used to be in the sense that she was overprotective. I wasn't even allowed to play on the green across the street (a 20 second walk away) because she couldn't see me from the living room window. And this was from the time I was old enough to play out to when I was about 13 and stopped playing out :P
Not anymore though, I'm an adult now :P But I am expected to respect them and the fact that I'm still living under their roof. And most importantly, I know never to lie. But no, absolutely no control now.
They try to be lol
negative.
My mum isn't, my dad is for sure but I know its because he wants the best for me :P.