Liking what you can't have

hmmm okay

does anyone else sort of like what they can never have? relationship wise... i always tend to like straight guys. and my mate who i really like i can play along with but it's frustrating when he doesn't play along/blanks but at the same time i LIKE it. does that sound weird? like i like the fact i can't have it and he's annoying me by blanking/not responding. it's so frustrating yet i enjoy it

is this one of those liking abuse things idk. like another thing i like is little stupid bickering for sake of it. we have them. but i'd actually like to have them in a relationship cos idk i think he's cute when he's like that. and it's been same for others.

am i mad or is this common. you know it's like the badboy arrogant thing maybe isn't it? no one likes a nice guy

wbu?

yes billions of pounds

yes @wixard;

i guess its normal like how people go for "bad boys" because they wanna be the one who tames them/settles down with them. maybe theres a tiny bit of hope he will turn for ya?


but not me i get everything/everyone i want

I'm the opposite. I don't really fall for the bad guy thing, give me a nice guy (or girl) any day of the week.
You just like the drama, you drama queen :P

don't like the drama (if that at me) it's more like
if I can get someone who doesn't like ANYONE to like me then obv I'm special lol
not rational I know not like that anymore lol would prefer someone to treat me nicely buy me things etc!

It was more aimed at Dan. with the being ignored and enjoying little arguments. He totally loves the drama of it all!

I find the same with with straight girls, I've had a crush on 2 very straight girls and 2 girls in relationships it's awwwwful :( I think though the element of being FORBIDDEN something actually makes you want it more? I find that a lot anyway. If you get it (which has happened a few times) the want wears off a bit!

Yes it's the worst thing ever, but there's no point dwelling on it because it's never going to happen. Move on and be happy!

Yeah for sure... it's so bad. Like you can't even do anything about it, want but can't have. Ah well, just have to get on with life and hopefully someone is around the corner who you can have.

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Originally Posted by lawrawrrr

I find the same with with straight girls, I've had a crush on 2 very straight girls and 2 girls in relationships it's awwwwful :( I think though the element of being FORBIDDEN something actually makes you want it more? I find that a lot anyway. If you get it (which has happened a few times) the want wears off a bit!

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that's why i don't know whether i'm bi or just lesbian. i think bi but yeah.
#TRIGGERED xD

I never really think about it
I've never madly fell in love with anyone so haven't had that prob yet :(