I hate boys, I hate love.

[Meree.]

So yeah the title says my main feature of this thread. I went and took alot of ya'lls advice to go ahead and get a new guy. So i've been with him for a while now, and it's got quite serious. We have these never ending phone calls every night where he constantly tells me 'i love you, or i love you so much, i never want to lose you, your the one, your the best girlfriend ever' Yes it is irl incase your wondering But the thing is... sometimes we don't talk at much and I miss him loadssss. He tells me im all he talks about to his mates and he can't get me out of his head or stop thinking about me. Today I woke up, to go on msn and find out there's something he wants to tell me. Being ' Meree I think we should just be mates ' My main question being 'WHY!?' 'He said he loves me still but wants to end it' 'i said did u mean all those things u said? (That i listed above) and he said yes' The main thing that got me conufsed when i asked did u really mean I was the one, and he said yes. SO WHY END IT?

(Im on ps3 so it wouldn't let me write anymore sorry) and basically how could he steep so low to tell me all those meaningful things and then go and hurt me like that. It's beyond selfishness at how upset I actually am. But why would he do this if he says im the one for him, im the best gf, etc. +rep for mature, answers.

[Pyroka]

omg gutted

LOL uh hes probably found someone else tbf, guys work mysterious ways when it comes to 'love'. probably didnt mean em but wants to say them to make u feel better anyway and to make him look less of a ****. true story.

[leah]

Firstly you couldn't have been with him a "while" cause it wasn't too long ago you were edating Matt?! :S lol hmm maybe he uses HxF on the sly and saw you and peeko last night! haha all jokes aside...


It seems like somethings pressuring him to end it with you, if he says he meant those things and wants to end it you need to find out what. It could be pressure from his mates or he could be under stress from school or something? Speak to him about it and try to find out why the sudden change of heart.

[Meree.]

Firstly you couldn't have been with him a "while" cause it wasn't too long ago you were edating Matt?! :S lol hmm maybe he uses HxF on the sly and saw you and peeko last night! haha all jokes aside...


It seems like somethings pressuring him to end it with you, if he says he meant those things and wants to end it you need to find out what. It could be pressure from his mates or he could be under stress from school or something? Speak to him about it and try to find out why the sudden change of heart.

Actually we broke up ages ago, LOL. And uhm, well I have, I keep asking him why and all he replies with is 'I just wanna be mates' every single time.

[leah]

Actually we broke up ages ago, LOL. And uhm, well I have, I keep asking him why and all he replies with is 'I just wanna be mates' every single time.

tell him that answer isn't appropriate. Say if he loves you and you're the one why would he just wanna be mates. Tell him to be truthful or you'll stop speaking to him all together.

[Meree.]

tell him that answer isn't appropriate. Say if he loves you and you're the one why would he just wanna be mates. Tell him to be truthful or you'll stop speaking to him all together.

Okay, i've asked him, and he said the following: 'because i dont want a relationship.'

[leah]

Okay, i've asked him, and he said the following: 'because i dont want a relationship.'

tell him that he cant love you then and then say you can't be bothered to talk to him anymore. If he's worth it he'll come running back.

[Meree.]

I don't think he will. When he told me earlier he said i'm not going back on my word.

[Pyroka]

I don't think he will. When he told me earlier he said i'm not going back on my word.

hahahahha guy mistake guy mistake they always do

[Meree.]

hahahahha guy mistake guy mistake they always do

ugh, well i probs aint gonna take him back. im slowly getting over him already. ;l i'm kinda beginning to see right through him, seems like a jerk.