Need a bit of help..

[Rosie]

Hey there guys well i need a bit of help here..My best friend is going out with boy called chris. They have been going out for about 2 months now They are both 14 and well i don't think he is really nice to her She is always going over to his house, it was her birthday on the 22nd and he never even came over for her party thing. He said we were all loosers and he don't want to drink with us. She was crying and i really feel for her she is a really good mate.Thing is she don't see it he has never been over to her house EVER! And i know it's not my problem but i'm fed up with it He treats her like dirt. Hi ex-girlfriend called kassi or something well she was looking through his phone and said to me sshe found a message saying I don't know if i still love kassi. They are 14 i don't think they know what love is. But it's Jodie im worried for! I don't want to see her get hurt.Reason why i'm doing this thread is i don't know what to do about it.Can you guys please help?
Thanks

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-Will

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[NekkLe]

Can't you ask 'Dear Deadrie' in The Sun

Hmm, so basically, your freinds boyfreind feels uncomfortable about around her freinds.
Maybe hes confused? Like you said, they might not know the true meaning of love, he feels uncomfortable. Its harsh to have him say he doesn't want to spend time with her because her freinds are with her, but maybe 'Jodie' needs to sit down with him and have a leveled chat with him.
Love can be very confusing at that age, it is mostly throughout most of your teenage life. But honestly, they need to talk and sort the incedent out.

I don't think you could do much but encourage your freind to have a chat with him. Leave it to them and they'll sort out there differences.

#NekkLe

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Yeah that blooming helpful

Sorry :p

-Will

[Aimseh]

Firstly have your girls idea of fun to make your friend more relaxed and even more close to you than she already is. Be really nice to her although i'm sure you already are as although she might not know she is going through a hard time. Then you should start to tell her about the the text message and things. Explain to her that you know she may think he is worth it but just reassure her that he isn't. Tell her to write down her pro's and con's about him. It always helps to write down your problem. Also tell her to really think about if she see's a future with him and also explain to her about why he never does anything she wants him to like go over to her house and go to her party. I mean come on what boyfriend doesn't go to his girls party. Just ask her questions like that. I'm sure she'll come around. After she dumps him maybe have a sleepover or do something with all your mates to make her just forget about him.

Hope everything works out ok.

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Hey there guys well i need a bit of help here..My best friend is going out with boy called chris. They have been going out for about 2 months now They are both 14 and well i don't think he is really nice to her She is always going over to his house, it was her birthday on the 22nd and he never even came over for her party thing. He said we were all loosers and he don't want to drink with us. She was crying and i really feel for her she is a really good mate.Thing is she don't see it he has never been over to her house EVER! And i know it's not my problem but i'm fed up with it He treats her like dirt. Hi ex-girlfriend called kassi or something well she was looking through his phone and said to me sshe found a message saying I don't know if i still love kassi. They are 14 i don't think they know what love is. But it's Jodie im worried for! I don't want to see her get hurt.Reason why i'm doing this thread is i don't know what to do about it.Can you guys please help?
Thanks

Nothing to do with you if shes happy its her life :s