Little help.

[iAdam]

So, I've been going out with this girl for a couple of days now and we are getting along nicely holding hands hugging all the usual. I'm just wondering when we should start kissing and which approach to use.

I've never had this problem before as girls have just come onto me in the first couple of days or so.

Help me please.

[=Zero=]

Maybe she's not quite ready for it....give it time and it just tends to happen when the time is right...and then sometimes there are the girls which come onto your straight away...depends on how outgoing they are ^^

[iAdam]

K, thanks for your help.

[Ostinato]

Communication is the key to all relationships success.

How are you going to know when shes ready to kiss or whatever? Your no mind reader, so you can't just magically know. However, I agree with above that sometimes it's just 'right' and it just happens naturally, but why not just cuddle her closely and then move your face back a bit and look at her in the eyes. Then, if she wants to kiss you it'll be sorta obvious and you can just move in on her.

Don't leave all the work down to the girl! ;P

[FlyingJesus]

If she's a girl who perhaps isn't as experienced as you, let her take it at her own pace. Giving her hints is fine, but don't start sucking her face off unless she shows signs of wanting to play tonsil tennis with you.

[iAdam]

Ok thanks for the help parts of the last two posts made me laugh.