need a bit of help

[benjamin]

ok, i told my second mate i was bi er, yesterday? it was a boy this time, he is totally cool with it. thing is, i really really like him, and like i actually mean it, i've never really liked someone this much before.. well anyway. i was trying to like kinda not think about him, as it didn't really make me feel great as i thought he was straight. but then tonight i went swimming with my friend charlee, and we were talking.. came onto the subject of jack [the boy i like]. and well she goes, i've always thought he liked boys tbh.. there has been a rumour going round about it for ages, and he hasn't ever really denied it or cared.. and it made me think, like what if. but then if he was, wouldn't he have said somthing when i told him? ahh i dunno i'm just a bit confused with what to do.

[vibrant]

Well if he is, if you told him you were bi he could have thought you were joking and didn't admit it?

Get Charlee to ask him?

[benjamin]

Well if he is, if you told him you were bi he could have thought you were joking and didn't admit it?

Get Charlee to ask him?

hm, i could do.. but like he might just not be ready to tell anyone.. i just wanna knoww.

[vibrant]

aaw. if he is then grope his butt.

[Homosexual]

hm, i could do.. but like he might just not be ready to tell anyone.. i just wanna knoww.

Just slip a note in his locker if you have lockers then ask him to return it to Charlee then ask charlee to return it to you?

[benjamin]

aaw. if he is then grope his butt.

done it before, he did it to me first but he was like joking-y

Just slip a note in his locker if you have lockers then ask him to return it to Charlee then ask charlee to return it to you?

er, most people in our year don't really have lockers.. but i'd rather just say on msn. what exactly would the note say? it sounds like really like er, whats the word.. somthing you'd do when you're like 7..

[brodeo]

Don't go down the route of hunting a straight guy.. untill he admits hes a homo.

[Leigh]

Been in the same situtation and it's bloody annoying isnt it?

People speculate people are gay all the time.. and they arnt. He may be going through an experimental phase, as most guys do, asking himself if he is gay or not.
If he is then you'll probably be in luck.. he know's your gay.. and he probably know's you like him.. so he's more likely to make the first move with you.

That's how it worked with me anyway.

If i was you, i would tell him how i feel, but throw some things in like.. I know your straight and all.. and "but dont worry.. i wont take it any further because your straight"
Look out for his reaction.

If he's a true friend.. he probably wouldnt be bothered about the fact that you might like him.. infact you'll probably find that he will take pride in it and he will feel important and loved

Let us know how you get on

x

[Leigh]

Don't go down the route of hunting a straight guy.. untill he admits hes a homo.

it's just a tad bit harder than that 'love :]

x

[benjamin]

Don't go down the route of hunting a straight guy.. untill he admits hes a homo.

er well i'm not exactly gunna tie him up am i.

Been in the same situtation and it's bloody annoying isnt it?

People speculate people are gay all the time.. and they arnt. He may be going through an experimental phase, as most guys do, asking himself if he is gay or not.
If he is then you'll probably be in luck.. he know's your gay.. and he probably know's you like him.. so he's more likely to make the first move with you.

That's how it worked with me anyway.

If i was you, i would tell him how i feel, but throw some things in like.. I know your straight and all.. and "but dont worry.. i wont take it any further because your straight"
Look out for his reaction.

If he's a true friend.. he probably wouldnt be bothered about the fact that you might like him.. infact you'll probably find that he will take pride in it and he will feel important and loved

Let us know how you get on

x

yeah that's a good idea, and tell me about it being frustrating ;ll. and no, you can't help who you like.
but what i might do is like, ask him if he would do/has ever thought of doing anything with a guy or stuff.

thanks :]