Step Dad's Anger - Out of control.

[indian8132]

Hello

Well, remember problems I had with family about mum drinking etc? Surprisingly, they have all gone, and guess why? Cause I followed the advice that you, the Habbox population, gave me. And you dont know how grateful I am for that I dont know how to repay you. However, a problem has arised within the past few days - drink unrelated.

My step dad does not take his anger out in a good way. Yesterday, I moved my bed into my baby sisters room to make a office for myself which my mum, and 3yr old sister were fine about He came home from work, and well absoloutly MAD. He told me to get it out of the room, but I couldnt due to the weight of it, it would fall out my hands down the stairs. He was angry, and wheeled it out of the room, threw the matterress and bed base down the stairs completly disregarding what was there. It smashed the table and a bit of the bed. I was angry, understandibly, and called him names. He told my 12yr old sister to take her and baby sister into another room so he could see "how much of a man" I really am. That was the point where I was terrified. I called him a word begginning with C, 4 letters and very rude and tried to run. I got in the garden with him chasing me, and I was crying (ashamed to admit it) and got out the gate where he picked up my baby sisters bike and threw it at me, but i got down and heard a massive crash where it broke part of the gate. He shouted "You get away from this house and dont you dare f*****g come back because I will get you again". I kept running, loads, and saw 2 police offices in the street but I was scared to tell them. I got to a payphone box and called my nan, and I stayed at hers for the night. Im going to stay at my nans for a while I think.

I came home tonight, no intention of sleeping here but I had to. Mum told me my step dad wouldnt be home tonight, and in the past 10 minuites he has came in. Now I am scared about going to sleep because of what he said about "if I come back he will get me". Im currently in the lounge on my laptop, and he is in the kitchen but will come in in a minuite or two.

Should I be ashamed of myself if I cry, is it regarded as "unmanly"? Im scared of what he will do to me, what if he hits me, it wouldnt be the first time he punched someone either. Please help, and maybe this problem will get sorted as efficiantly as the other one. I appericiate every single one of your answers.

:sean

[2hd.]

Sounds like something serious enough for childline IMO.

It's ironic that this man said he wanted to see "how much of a man" you was, when he is probably one of the most cowardly people in the world if he thinks the only way he can prove his prowess is by picking on a person who's probably more than a third of his age. Go and stay at your nan's and tell your mum you don't feel safe (if you don't) in your own home whilst he still has anger issues. If he touches you, go to the police, if anything it will put the frightener's on him and stop him from doing it again.

[luke-p]

Well first of all, its not unmanly to cry...

Secondly non-offensively... I think your mum is rather stupid if she is letting a man like that live with you all if he is as mad as he is and abusive towards you!

Also, you could go and stay at your nans for a while, and speek to your mum from there, or get your nan to have a word with her... Tell your mum exactly how you feel about her and her boyfriend and the way he is, don't hold back.

Good luck

[indian8132]

Sounds like something serious enough for childline IMO.

It's ironic that this man said he wanted to see "how much of a man" you was, when he is probably one of the most cowardly people in the world if he thinks the only way he can prove his prowess is by picking on a person who's probably more than a third of his age. Go and stay at your nan's and tell your mum you don't feel safe (if you don't) in your own home whilst he still has anger issues. If he touches you, go to the police, if anything it will put the frightener's on him and stop him from doing it again.

+Rep, thats appericiated very much
My nan is going to ring me before she goes to bed (in around 10 mins) and she knows I wont go to sleep and if I keep telling her it, I might be able to go to hers tonight because its not far. I tell mum that shes stupid and she repeatidly says the same thing - I love him. Nan has spoke to mum so many times about things like this (not as serious) but it doesnt make a difference.

[Catzsy]

He most definitely has an anger problem by the sound of it and your Mum should do something about it - personally I would go to your Nans.

[:Hazel]

i'd stay at your nans for the time being & speak to e.g. childline about it because you can't live like that.

[indian8132]

I just rang nan and she says i should try get to sleep. She also says if he touches me, call 999 or call her and she will be round with the police.

[2hd.]

yeah, keep your mobile with you tonight

[Elw00d]

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[luke-p]

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**** off will you,

If your not going to help him then just don't post :\

Yeah as said a few posts above... Keep your mobile with you, and perhaps a bat or something [being serious]