I feel awkard talking about this....

[Kaine]

....but for some reason.....I want to have sex with like a 16/17 year old girl.....

I guess the main reason is, like, my buddy, he's like 17 and he's already nearly done it with his girlfriend who is 15, so basically, because I am also a virgin (and im 20), i feel like i need retribution in one form or another. Also, I know several people from Habbo who are younger than me and most of the time when we talk, they tell me about sexual things they've just done the night before, things like that. (Don't ask me why, I tell em "Don't wanna hear it!" and they still tell me anyway.)

I was never popular in school, mainly kept to myself, didn't want to get into smoking and drugs, you understand (even though I ended up getting into it anyways), and because of that I never did have a girlfriend for a long enough time to have sex.

So I feel like I missed out on part of my life and well.......I feel really awkward about having the urge to have sex with a girl 3-4 years younger than me to make up for what I missed.

In closing, I guess, I'm not really obsessed with the idea of having sex with a girl 3-4 years younger than me, like, hell, if I met a girl my age, obviously if the relationship got far enough, hell yeah I'd have sex with her. But for some reason lately, what with my buddy Adam bragging about his foreplay conquests with his girlfriend, and hearing about this kinda thing from people I know all the time, it's made me start thinking "Why can't I...."

Is this normal to feel?

Note: I am not a pedophile, nor do I endorse pedophilia. Matter of fact, pedophilia is just nasty and all pedophiles should be castrated. ;>.>

[Assassinator]

There's always broffels.

[Jord]

If you wanna have sex with her do it? What's the point telling us.


And the age thing was a joke, right? :rolleyes:.

[Kaine]

What age thing? Me being 20 and a virgin which is true, or the 16-17 year old girls which was also true?

I know, it's weird, and I honestly feel weird even thinking about it.

But it's like there's a gaping hole in my life because 98% of kids aged 15-20 here in the city I live in have had sex, and boom, here's me, 0.1% of the other 2% who hasn't and it sucks to be honest.

Like recently, this girl I know, who is 15, who lives a few provinces away, recently told me that her and her boyfriend who is 16 recently had sex for the first time. Now, I care about her alot, and she cares about me alot, and thinks of me as an older brother.

When I heard that.....I guess....part of me was disappointed in her, mainly because of my upbringing.

I was brought up to think that sex before 18 years old/marriage was wrong. That was way back when, nowadays, im agnostic and I try not to think about sex before 18 being wrong, but no matter how hard I try, I can't help but feel like it's morally wrong.

Edit: "If you wanna have sex with her" <-- With who? I didn;t say I know a 16-17 year old girl that I want to have sex with.....I was just saying I feel like I should meet a girl 3-4 years younger than me.....but it just seems wrong.

To shorten things up: I need to have sex, I guess. I feel like a bloody loser because all around me, people are having sex, and I mean, half of em are like 15 for god sakes >.> It puts me to shame.

[dirrty]

get a prozzy if ur so desperate.

[blah blah blah]

Just have sex already! what do you feel is holding you back? Dont expect to have sex with a 16-17 year old. I think your expections might be a bit to high.

[Kaine]

Just have sex already! what do you feel is holding you back? Dont expect to have sex with a 16-17 year old. I think your expections might be a bit to high.

Look, we got off on the wrong foot, and with this post, I see where you're coming from.

I know my expectation is high...

It's just, I was in a relationship once, and I know I've already said this in other topics alot, but I loved her alot.....she had brain cancer when she was younger and had it removed. I dated her back in December '04. On December 5th, 2005, she passed away. She was 18. She would've been 21 on January 2nd.....

And I know I'm kinda flipping in between topics here, but I guess, at the time of our relationship, I hoped I would stay in the relationship with her long enough to have my first time with her......but that never happened.....

Even to this day, I still tend to imagine "What would my life be like if we did have sex and I got her pregnant (on purpose or by accident, either/or) and then she died (edit -->) but she had the baby before and I ended up becoming a single father".

I guess I should just settle with what I got.....I'm gonna live my life....and I guess it'll happen eventually.

I'm trying to turn my life around.....I quit smoking recently and I've been smoke-free for a month. I'm trying to give up the drinking and I've already given up the drugs. Because I was unemployed for several months, I gained some weight and I'm like 196lbs. I'm trying to get back down to like 150lbs.

I'm really turning things around for the better.

Thanks for all your input guys.

[blah blah blah]

Omg your that guy? i remember your other thread about that girl you dated that died. Seriously, no offence, but i already gave you advice. Great advice infact, in the other thread. GO READ IT

[Hecktix1]

Yeah,

I imagine when you tell all the girls you meet that you're 20 and play a teenage online multiplayer game, it's a right turn on!

[Kaine]

Yeah lol I'll do that

Yeah,

I imagine when you tell all the girls you meet that you're 20 and play a teenage online multiplayer game, it's a right turn on!

YOU DIE =O

Edited by lAscend (Forum Moderator): Please don't be rude.