okay so.

[blanky12!]

right.

so, for the last few days, i've constantly been out with this girl, she had a boyfriend but his a cheating ass, he didn't treat her right at all, went around sleeping with other girls - etc.

So, since saturday, i've been with her a lot, i mean, out drinking, smoking and just helping her out and getting to know if she likes me - her cusen thinks that we'd be a good pare.

On monday she found the boyfriend and he said to her "it's over, i found another girl" how harsh is that?

so as I said, I've been with her a lot, tuesday night/wed morning, we awas drinking, i unfortunally was sick :-( but on her steps to her front door.

she walked me up home and gave me a hug.

What do I do? I'm going to give her tiem to get over things.. I've been waiting for 3/4 months to actually get a chance cus you know..

[Soy]

Seems pretty obvious

tell her how you feel if she's not interested move on

[Browney]

Seems pretty obvious

tell her how you feel if she's not interested move on

I think hes asking more when to do it. I think your in a great position. As a close freind you should be able to tell how she feel if she talks about her feelings to you. If she says you know, she still loves him, its clear not to ask her out. Don't do anything yet, but talk to her about him, help her get over him if you need to. If she stays with him even though he cheated, she probably has alot of love for that guy, I wouldn't ask yet.

[Catchy]

Do it now, you could atleast be like the rebound

[blanky12!]

I think hes asking more when to do it. I think your in a great position. As a close freind you should be able to tell how she feel if she talks about her feelings to you. If she says you know, she still loves him, its clear not to ask her out. Don't do anything yet, but talk to her about him, help her get over him if you need to. If she stays with him even though he cheated, she probably has alot of love for that guy, I wouldn't ask yet.

she hates him

Do it now, you could atleast be like the rebound

That is the WORST advice ever.

[Jackbee]

Tell her how you feel, don't make it go on for ages wondering what to do, trust me.
Just get it over with and you will feel better whatever the outcome is.

[blanky12!]

Tell her how you feel, don't make it go on for ages wondering what to do, trust me.
Just get it over with and you will feel better whatever the outcome is.

I think so, i'll give her some time on her own for now and on Friday i'll tell her to come out again.

I think that's the best idea.

by the way guys, I've left you all +rep.

[Nxrissa]

Leave it a couple of weeks try and help her through it and spend as much time possible with her x then if she don't say anything say it to her x

[blanky12!]

Leave it a couple of weeks try and help her through it and spend as much time possible with her x then if she don't say anything say it to her x

I'm thinking of leaving it fullstop, I've waited too much time and it will never happen.

[FlyingJesus]

Wow you're getting her drunk and still haven't done anything what's up with that