dunno what to do

buttons · 24-11-2008, 05:13 PM

kk so i was with a guy on and off for ages, would've been a year round bout this time yeh.
i think we dated on and off total of 4 times lol shows what kinda relationship we had + i dated someone else for a month or so in between that time.

in august or somethin tho he finished with me saying he'd just carry on breakin my heart blah blah whatever and that i deserve better than him. which i do tho, he used to always pick friends over me and would hardly come see me

& he said that was our relationship totally over.

but he texted me askin if i wanted to give it another go. & i'm welllll confused coz he told me i deserve better than him but i think that was an excuse just to get outta our relationship:S nd well fing is i'll never see him coz i'm grounded (coz im nt 16 i can't really do nout bout it) till i'm 16 lolll apparently!! but he sayz we can still av a relationship

i dnt think we can. i no it's only like a month to wait lol (he duznt go to school) & i like someone else atm but i can't do nothin bout that either. should i just tell him no not until i get to see him or no 'cause of the way he's playin me bout or yes give him anotha chance OMG i dunno. fnx.

Affreux · 24-11-2008, 05:15 PM

Like you said to like someone else, don't give that looser the satisfation.
One of my friends is similar to you, she was with this guy for a few months and he treated her like crap but she finished with him through my advice but she still thinks she likes him but she often tells me she is much happier than she was.

buttons · 24-11-2008, 05:22 PM

Originally Posted by Affreux

Like you said to like someone else, don't give that looser the satisfation.
One of my friends is similar to you, she was with this guy for a few months and he treated her like crap but she finished with him through my advice but she still thinks she likes him but she often tells me she is much happier than she was.

oh true. i spent most of time moaning bout him. & yeh it's maybe cause she was with him a long time like me, so i guess i spent too much time wiv him n got used to his ways but i don't actually no if i still like him.

~~Clowgon~~ · 24-11-2008, 05:32 PM

No. Why? Because that loser will keep breaking your heart. My advice?
Go out there experiment and just have fun! If you do get back with him it probs be over within a month or so. Move on, never go back to the past.

H · 24-11-2008, 07:36 PM

If your previous relationship didn't work the first time round, it isn't going to work again the second time. If you broke up 4 times during that year, is it really going to work getting back with him? Especially if he hurt you aswell. There are plentyyyy of guys who would be willing to make you happy. You don't deserve to be upset so I'd stay single and wait for the right guy to come along.

buttons · 24-11-2008, 07:39 PM

Originally Posted by Clowgon

No. Why? Because that loser will keep breaking your heart. My advice?
Go out there experiment and just have fun! If you do get back with him it probs be over within a month or so. Move on, never go back to the past.

Originally Posted by H

If your previous relationship didn't work the first time round, it isn't going to work again the second time. If you broke up 4 times during that year, is it really going to work getting back with him? Especially if he hurt you aswell. There are plentyyyy of guys who would be willing to make you happy. You don't deserve to be upset so I'd stay single and wait for the right guy to come along.

oh god. these weren't the replies i wanted, but i know it's true. lol o well. i guess it's a no then "/