k this boy srsly starting to annoy me

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well basically we have been friends since beginning of high skl really but last yr October time everyone fell out with me so he's all "you only need me anyway" so we've been rly good friends since
but then a few month ago he told another of our friends that he liked me n asked what i thought, even though he knew i had a bf at the time :S so i was like "i don't like u like that" so yerrrr since then it's been a bit awkward between us but i keep the peace otherwise he thinks somethings wrong with me n constantly ******* asks "are u ok" "whats wrong" when there's nothing he's just an annoying ******

n yeh well another of our friend fell out with him recently, prob coz he's so annoyin so he's like stuck to me :@ i kno it's only fair coz when everyone fell out with me he didnt but seriously he's so annoying. if we're walkin together i'll stay behind coz they walk faster n he constantly looks behind him to see i'm still there :S n like i sometimes hang with these other people so i'm walkin over to meet them n he's like "where u goin" n i have to make excuses but no matter what i say it's "i'll come"

then in philosophy he totally ruins my plans. like him n this other girl wanted to leave the class n just left me which is fine because i prefer to work in groups with people i don't know, makes me work better, so i didn't really mind. but then the teacher said he couldn't leave so he came back to our class after a week. i'd already started with this group so he's like "well you're working with me" n i'm like nahhhh i'm working with these so he said "fine i'll work with you guys too" n i'm just like THERE'S NO ******* ROOM!! so he grabs my book and writes down all my notes and says "tough" i was so mad tho coz i'd done it all by myself n wanted to n now he's forcin me to be with him n im just sick of it, i feel bad coz when every1 else fell out with me he was the only one there but he's a ******* pest how can i tell him to gtho basically without hurtin his feelings thx

[Immenseman]

you just need to take him to one side and be as nice as possible because at the moment it doesn't sound like he's getting the message that he's way too cling (crabby ). say to him that you want to be friends still and you value his friendship because he was there for you when you needed someone but that you need some space sometimes.

[LuketheDuke]

Id spike his drink with something powerful as that doesnt hurt his feelings neccessarily.

Er other than that why dont you just tell him just cos you dont like him it doesnt mean hes a bad looking kid, boost his confidence and tell him to have a bash at some other girls as your sure he'll succeed.

And for the learny thing tell him you want to concentrate and succeed and that might mean working apart for the benefit of your education. If he doesnt understand that he deserves to have his feelings pwned.

[Lee]

Oh dear, feeling sorry for you Jen Just don't make a scene, talk to him and say you need some space, or tell him to leave you alone, I know he had your back before but he can't do this to you, he's dragging you down with him so say no!

[leah]

Just tell him that he's too clingy and it's making you not enjoy spending time with him as much, tell him you don't want to fall out with him over it because he was there for you when no one else was but you need your space.

[FlyingJesus]

Don't even bother about saving his feelings he sounds like a right *Removed* and all that. From all of this it doesn't sound like you really want to stay his friend anyway so no harm done to yourself

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tell him to **** off. he's basically controlling you. so what if everyone falls out with you, dont mean hes your ONLY friend.

[Wahey]

Is that the same guy you told me about? :S

[kuzkasate]

I would just say WOAH! Back off!

But in a nice feeling-ish way just tell him you need a bit of rest & he needs to let it go a little bit... I dunno make something up. Like your having problems...

[Wig44.]

Blimey, I didn't know I was winding you up that much :S You shoulda just told me to **** off. But whatever you do i'll still come with you