Sexuality...

[:Liam]

Ok well there was a debate going on with me and a couple of my mates basically they were saying you cant know your sexuality until you have sexual experiences. like they were saying you cant know your gay if you've never done anything with a guy. Do you think thats true?


Well personally I dont I think its a load of crap. Like if you dont get turned on by women your obviously not straight and like if you get turned on by the thought of doing stuff with guys you could be gay/bi. Like I think sexuality you have to really think about it like some people it comes second nature like there just straight no questions but when your gay you know it like you just do :S.

[drama]

it was only after i had sex with a guy that i realised i wasn't gay haha, but i doubt it was because of that.

[Kardan]

A friend of mine said she realised she was gay at the age of 7; so no...

And how are you supposed to choose who to have sex with if you don't know your sexuality before hand?

[Mitch4?]

Nah it aint true, it's just an arguement people use against people when they were curious they just say "you dont know until you try it".
but then again some people are actually gay, but are in denial to themself, so they believe they are not gay but they are actually, and if they did have a gay experience then they might have new found confidence,

p.s. dont listen to me im just blabbering

[TooClose]

Rubbish. I didnt have sex until like a year after i knew my sexuality.

A straight guy could enjoy sexual stimulation from another guy without being gay.. I have a male friend who really enjoys recieving head off other guys because he says guys are better at it. However, he's deffinately straight.

[Moh]

Your sexuality hasn't got anything to do with sex

[TooClose]

Your sexuality hasn't got anything to do with sex

That's true to an extent i suppose.

[Tarantula]

I'm not fussy.
:rolleyes:

[spandeXXX]

no lol
most straight people believe they're straight way before they do anything with a girl other than 'kiss', so why should it be different for gays, lesbians or even bisexuals?

TUT.

[Christian]

Rubbish, I can proudly say I'd rather do things with a boy than girl and I ain't even do things with a boy yet and I have with a girl. (No the girl was not that bad at kissing if you think that's why I turned gay).