Your views on a **** buddy

[JACKTARD]

I'm 15, I am really close to all my mates, especially close to Michelle, we have tried almost everything, i dont see anything wrong with it - its all safe and there are no strings attached, we're young and experemental but some people seem to have a problem with it. Dont really know how they found out but they just talk about it behind our backs, we arent bothered, could just because they arent getting any. I think its good to have one, no strings attached, improvements, give each other tips. Obvs we stop when either of us get a partner though

[Niall!]

Just tell them at least you get laid.

[buttons]

Well personally, I don't like the feeling of being used and especially not for sexual purposes. I'm not going to say I think all sex should be meaningful but I wouldn't want to be having occasional sexual contact with someone just for experimenting. If it was to be constant contact then I'd have to have be emotionally connected to them at some level otherwise I just see no point than having *one* person to mess around with, I find that pretty immature. You might think it's safe but would you really like to get someone pregnant that you're just sleeping with and don't want to be with? If you're not talking about actual sex then how are you gonna feel when one of you gets an STD which you probably will, I don't think "**** buddies" stick with one person all the time. It's not for me, one night stands on the other hand ..... :eusa_whis

[Cyndia]

The longer you stay as "**** buddies" the more likely one of you is going to get emotionally attached (and generally it tends to happen to the girl..) which can makes this really messy. So yeah, I personally would never get involved in something like that, but if you like it go for it! Just make sure you two are always clear on what your relationship with each other is and you hopefully won't run into problems.

[FlyingJesus]

If neither of you mind it then there's no reason not to keep it going - make sure there's a rule that if either of you get with anyone else you have to let it be known though, just in case you end up not being comfortable with that. I know it's "casual" but it's still a friend. Personally I find I'm more open and close to the girls I've been in sexual contact with - I think only 2 of my close female friends aren't ex girlfriends or ex lovers

[Mentor]

As long as you both feel the same way about it and no ones getting hurt i cant see any problem with it myself. Just dont fall in to a patten as sure its fine when your both single, but if you carry it one when one of you isnt, then there is a liability for some damage "/

Just make sure you practice safe sex.

Also, if you don't want people talking about it, often a good idea not to tell em.

[RastaLulz]

There's nothing wrong with getting some action.

The people who care are the ones who can't get any, and/or jealous..

[BlueLord]

I think it's perfectly normal to get and seek action, have fun whilst it lasts, and whilst you can! Just make sure you're aware of what safety precautions you should take (if you want me to elaborate, pm me!)

[beth]

me + my ex were "****" buddies for a while.
sure, i enjoyed the sex and i enjoyed the freedom but it completely destroyed me eventually because i couldn't differentiate between sex + love.
and i don't think a lot of young people can, and i think the more you do it, the more you will fall for this girl.

once or twice is fine, but when it becomes a regular affair, you'll begin to miss it when you can't have it and soon it won't be footloose + fancy free.

[Clowgon]

Wow your 15 and you got a **** buddy already! Boy aren't you lucky....

At this moment of time... i personally wouldn't mind have a **** buddy.

Anyways ye, i think it's ok having a **** buddy as long as your not in a relationship with someone else. You only get one life on this earth so FULFILL it to the max! Experiment, enjoy! Never look back!