Marriage

[Absently]

What's your opinion on marriage?

In my opinion, from what I've seen, it seems like most marriages end in divorce (obviously not all!). I don't care too much for it and I don't see it as important in my life and I don't care if I never do. I'm not too bothered about getting engaged, as in my eyes that's a commitment - which I think is nice. If I was to get married, it would be after (if) I have children and they were old enough to remember it. I also would attempt to refrain from it being an expensive wedding, low key with not many people attending but family and close friends.

Although, saying all that, marriages are beautiful and genuinely makes me happy to see people getting married. It's just not important for me

[MKR&*42]

Idk!! . I don't know whether I want to be married or not haha, if I ever did get married/entered a civil partnership... unless the law on same-sex marriage changes, lord knows what will happen in regards to that.. nyway, if it was a marriage I'd be the one organising absolutely everything lmfao. It just all seems so exciting to have a wedding :]. Not gonna let some "bridezilla" try take control .

I think people can be a bit careless in engagement/married these days. Some propose after a few months and I think it's a bit silly tbqh. My friend got engaged when she was... 15 or 16 I believe and it's ridiculous. She broke up with the guy a few months later (but for a VERY good reason >.<) , got involved with another one and a few months in he proposed and she said yes. I just don't think people should be making that engagement decision at such a young age.

[geo]

Not quite sure about marriage. I mean, I'd love to get married and things, but for me it really isn't the most important thing and I would be worried that it would complicate things. Unlike Warren, I really wouldn't want to be in control lol. I'd want someone else preparing it, not because I'm lazy or anything, but because I'd **** it up.

I agree though, I do like going to weddings because it's lovely seeing people so happy. I find it so cute and stuff, aw.

[Fuseless]

Marriage just seems like such a a huge commitment to make, and yeah i get what you are saying most of them end in divorce, so i don't really have any interest in it right now, or any time soon to say the truth. Whilst your young you should just be looking to have a good life and make the most of everything, no point in getting tied down i don't think :L

[FlyingJesus]

It's nice and for a hell of a lot of people it's a big part of the path to happiness, but I don't know if it's for me. I'd like the wedding and stuff but being polyamorous presents a fair few problems when it comes to marriage, not least the legal aspect Frankly if I'm going to be committed to someone for a long time I'd like to think that I wouldn't need the fear of losing all my assets and kids in order to keep me from being a good partner

[GoldenMerc]

Can't see myself ever ready for a marriage

[buttons]

i can't ever see myself getting married
main reason i want to is to look pretty for a day
but i also want it to be a day where i can look back at my pictures and think "yeah i was happy and in love" not cause i felt pressured or anything like that
i don't see it happening and i don't like huge shows or attention on me so it'd probably be something quite low key and probably not till 30's
i think it's just nice to 'seal the deal' sorta. if im in a long term relationship with kids then i wanna get married. have the whole package.

[lawrawrrr]

I used to think I'd definitely do it but people find it far too difficult to stay around me as I have some very... weird... reactions and things, in real life. I'm not sure I can even commit myself for that long, even if I did want to commit why would I need to spend thousands of pounds on a glorified party, as I don't even believe in God so can't use that excuse.

[dbgtz]

I don't like the idea of all my possessions instantly becoming half someone elses with the potential of them essentially being stolen in future. However if this feeling goes and they want to get married, then I would be up for it though I will not seek marriage.

[Lewis]

I dont want marriage. Pay a load of money for a stupid wedding to either be divorced or hit with a bat and get your life insurance.

Of course, most marriages dont end up in a killing lmao, but a lot get divorced and I dont see the point wasting a lot of money on it. Marriage means nothing but a waste to me.