He said he loves me :|

[Conspiracy.]

Now I think our relationship is going really fast :| Me and my boyfriend have only been together 2 weeks, we have had sex and he told me he's falling in love with me. It's starting to scare me :/ I have feelings for him but I don't "love" him yet. It just seems like we're on a roller coaster right now.

I've never been in a situation like this. I normally fall for guys quickly, not the other way round.

Is this going to quickly? what should I do? :| I like him but I can't love someone after 2 weeks.

[DamienMarj]

Why you sleeping with him so fast woman!

tell this loser you wanna take things slowly, don't see him everyday, have him ring you now and then but dont always be available even though you are? remember this guy probally just lost his virginity to you babes, so make sure his a good boy and listens to you.

[Conspiracy.]

It just kind of happened. He wasn't a virgin btw

[DamienMarj]

Wow, just read your previous thread.

let me get this straight, this guy aint a virgin, you was. you lost to him, he telling you HE LOVES YOU aint it meant to be the other way round? you sure are mature for your age. alot of young people these days try to be like the grown-ups but fail.

[Inseriousity.]

falling in love isnt the same as saying 'lets have babies' sounds to me he's on the same level as you maybe slightly ahead but nothing much to worry about imo.

[Conspiracy.]

I don't think sex should really have a stigma attached to it anymore. It's natural and normal, I shouldn't follow society's norms just to "fit in" If I want to have sex I should be able to have sex. We aren't hurting anyone.

This isn't really about sex anyway it's about him telling me he loves me.

It just kind of feels like a manic trip right now.

[Futz]

love is just a word, dont say it back to him until you want to, if you never do I guess you never will

people like to overcomplicate this ****

[DamienMarj]

he is not in love with you and for anybody to say that he is ''falling in love with you'' is ignorant. he is just a child at heart and im sorry you lost your virginity in a stupid way, ive never heard of it ''just happening'' leave him, you're find more casual with someone else. if i was with someone who was a virgin, i wouldnt just let it happen. it'd have to be about 4-5 months of being with them. i have more repect like that you see.

[buttons]

yeah i'd be worried, don't want to be the man hating feminist (ok i do a bit) but I see this happen all the time!! even kiss a guy and they suddenly think they own you. they go on about psycho, clingy girls when they seem to 'fall in love' way quicker than girls do. like I say it's probably not love but thinking he owns you especially as its only 2 weeks, how did you react to his declaration and how did he react to your reaction? Kinda makes sense for a guy to fall quicker than a girl though as generally guys can just move on to the next girl whereas girls have to be choosier if we take this from an evolutionary view point. anyway I don't think there's anything at all positive from a guy telling u he loves you at 2 weeks but ive heard of people knowing someone is the one for them after the first hour or whatever but generally people keep that to themselves.. Take it as you will BUT DO NOT LEAD HIM ON (altho hell say u did anyway ok no don't listen to me

[Inseriousity.]

wow jen has someone ripped your heart out and stuck it in a box?
going to scare the poor girl half to death! Don't know much about the guy so seems a bit premature to jump to these big assumptions. he might just be a big softie!