Insecurities

[Narnat,]

I was just wondering what is one thing that you're insecure about or has anyone been insecure about something and over come it? - mines has got be scars on my body I hate people seeing them so I go that extra mile to hide them.

[bam..its..abbz]

My body ? :/

[AlexJRiley]

All of me

[buttons]

yeah i'm not going to pick out my main insecurity, i always fear if i do pick it out people will start to notice when they wouldn't have if i didn't say so. i'm pretty much insecure about every individual feature on my face but i don't mind how they look altogether most of the time :S i focus on my face so much i haven't had much time to scrutinise my body, which other people do for me anyway .


i think it's important to see the bigger picture rather than focus on detail. the only way i overcome it is by asking people to not tag pictures of me (although i usually look back years later and realise it's not that bad), get rid of people who think it's banter to pick on your appearance, avoid mirrors when im with others (at home ill get up and check every mirror in the house hoping ill somehow look better than the last time i checked and see if one mirror makes me look better than the other). probably not the most healthiest of choices but it seems to work especially the mirror one as it allows me to stop worrying what i look like and focus on other people.

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i have body dysmorphia according to my GP but i dont believe it, i know my flaws simple as, i do place too much importance on them though.

[wixard]

WELL my body obviously, and i have a hole in my chest
and my ribs are deformed and don't go around so they stick out
and my legs are too thin
my hair is flat/stringy
my skin
my nose

that's it, well that's a lot. i'm insecure about all those things BUT at the same time, i've accepted that it's who i am so it rarely bothers me. there are one or two things that are on my mind constantly that i'm extremely insecure about but not too big of a deal

overall i'm happy enough

[dbgtz]

My mind.

[Cerys]

My hair
My face
My voice
My body in general
My personality

so you know, pretty much everything. I hate everything about who I am, I don't understand how anyone can like me

[Adam]

None because I don't seek attention. If people aren't willing to accept who you are they are not people worth knowing.

[MKR&*42]

A lot of stuff but I try and just get over it nd "man up" (?)

If people aren't willing to accept who you are they are not people worth knowing.

This has (and always will be) a good message for people to aspire to follow though^

[geo]

Pretty much every single bit of me, I hate. I really don't like my legs, my stomach, my face, my hands, my hair, my nose. The only thing I like are my eyes and that's about it. I think I have an annoying personality and I don't see how people put up with it. I've started pretending that I don't really care what people think about me (even though it kills me inside when people try hurting me) so people would hopefully pick at my flaws less. Some of the things I hate about my self I really can't change, so I've had to just face them and get over the fact I don't like them, as there's nothing I can really do.