Advice for my mate..x

[Embean]

Okay so, I am really good mates with my mate, Lea, she's one of my best mates, and I couldn't ask for anybody else to turn to.. well, she has a distance boyfriend, Luke, and he came up to my town last night, he's been staying with Lea (they are both 16) and he comes up regularly and they have all these plans together, but this morning while texting to her over the mobile, she told me that she's going off him and that she prefers it when they aren't together, when they are still going out, but not near each other [[if you get me]] and she doesn't know what to do. He's going back on Tuesday, but then coming back at the weekends, and doing the same weekends following, she really needs advice seeing as she can't tell him when he's at her house or staying with her.. incase they fall out and then she doesn't know where he'll go and stay.. and they have all these plans to do things together, even though she's going off him now.
I really need to give her some advice seeing as she's been there giving me advice with boy problems in the past. Good advice appreciated and probably +repped if I can
-Emmy.

[Chaz]

just say she has other plans that she overlooked?

[Embean]

just say she has other plans that she overlooked?

He has to stay with her though and it's all worked out, and he'd have to go with her if she went out with her mates or something.

[Chaz]

ouch, thats a tuff one, erm. I would not fall out with him. evan if he is an idiot, just get on with it thats all you can really do.

[Groovy]

Do you mean that she still wants to go out with him but dousn't like to be near him that much? If so then maybe shes spending too much time with him like he has to go everywhere with her if she goes out with her mates. I would advise her to spend less time with him (if possible) if he comes regularly. Then maybe when he does come to visit she will look forward to seeing him. =]

[Jordan3]

She should just tell him she wants to cool down a bit, and get herself straight. She should say she has her mind on other things, and that she needs time to think whether she is the one for him.

[SHEEPY]

I could say the same thing. My girlfriend is boring me at the minute, it's not her fault though, she's on her period.

[Grimmauld]

Watch her come back with a baby after she spends time with him. :rolleyes:

[Krusty]

Watch her come back with a baby after she spends time with him. :rolleyes:

It takes 9 months.. I dont suspect she will be with him for 9 months when she doesnt like him that much