Y me y me

[Jonathon7788]

i finaly got round to tell my family and friends that im bi family hate me now dont talk to me and i got beaten up bye the rumbers going around but on the pluss side ive got a relation ship that is going a bit se.xual but good we get up to alot my dad walked in while we was doing summink it got realy alkward

Do u dink i dun the right thing telling people

And how do u fink i should make up with my family

[Playgirl]

Well you would have had to tell them eventually...actually my stepdad has a friend who is 40 years old and living with another man and his parents still don't know he's gay! *rofl*
They'll probably get over it in time...but I am just cringing about your dad walking in...arghh! How embarrassing!

And I don't think they hate you, they're probably just in shock. Its not up to you to 'make up' with them because you haven't done anything wrong.

[JackHb]

Ignore your family, if they can't accept you for who you are then they are stupid (Don't take offence, just couldn't find the right word). But they probably will accept it eventually, just will take some time.
Aslong as you are 100% sure you are bi then sure you did the right thing.

[FlyingJesus]

Try not to get angry with them when you talk about it, that'll worsen things. Just try to act like everything's normal, like nothing's happened and nothing's been said. Ignorance is bliss, as they say.

[Danny]

It really annoys me when family members act like this... They are supposed to stick by you no matter what..

My friend was in the same situation as you a year or so ago, his parents "banned" him from telling his grandparents and other family members about his sexuality, his brother acted like it was an illness.

I think in the end his parents started to accept the fact that he is gay, but it took a while...

Be patient and see whether your parents accept you for who you are.

[Jonathon7788]

thanks all that is great advise going back to jack i am sure im bi and im glad and happy now i was not getting anywhere with girls still like eyeing girls up but corr being with boys much better pmsl just hope i have done the right fing see you all soon

ps... keep replyig il love to read ur replys if ur a boi call me lol joke

[cocaine]

It's their problem if they can't accept you, its not like it's your fault.

[Charlie]

If they can't accept the fact your gay then they ain't much of a family, Also if your parent caught you with your boyfriend i would be more careful in the future. As it may take some time for it to sink and get use to and seeing you with another boy may not help.

[Jonathon7788]

yea spose it was stupid of me to be starke naked lol but never mind

[Mr Vodor]

ewwwwwwwwwwww ur gay ewwwwwwww u had gay S_x ewwww u were naked arrrh ewww