*sigh* Self Harm

[Revis]

I've been very angry at myself alot recently and usually I vent this anger at myself with my trusty penknife. Recently i've been doing it because i've been making a girl I really care about feel bad because of my shyness and lack of confidence (long story).

Whilst playing football earlier, not only did I get hat hair but a friend of mine found out and told this girl and now she's threatening to cut herself every time I do it, which has made me feel even worse. I do really care about her and don't want her to do that but I have no other way to vent my anger without serious destruction to my arm, knuckles or my possesions in my bedroom.

So yeah, any ideas?

[Decapitated!]

I've been very angry at myself alot recently and usually I vent this anger at myself with my trusty penknife. Recently i've been doing it because i've been making a girl I really care about feel bad because of my shyness and lack of confidence (long story).

Whilst playing football earlier, not only did I get hat hair but a friend of mine found out and told this girl and now she's threatening to cut herself every time I do it, which has made me feel even worse. I do really care about her and don't want her to do that but I have no other way to vent my anger without serious destruction to my arm, knuckles or my possesions in my bedroom.

So yeah, any ideas?

Youre In The Same Position Im In..

Im Trying To Stop And Its Hard Take Away All Sharp Objects From Youre Room EVERYTHING Knifes,Penicils,Zips ANYTHING That Coud Cut You.. Throw Them Away...

Try Like Putting Ice Over Youre Cuts Or Putting Red Pen There (Sad But It Kinda Helps) Theres Info On Sites Just Search It Up..


Hope This Helps

[Mentor]

Just find a more useful vent for your fustraition, strenus exsorse or somthing "/

[Jordan3]

I did the same thing cos I thought I'd upset my girlfriend, all my mates saw it when I was getting changed and called me "emo." My girlfriend just talked to me about it, and now I haven't self harmed for the past 2 weeks, and I'm feeling fine.

[Revis]

I went the best part of 3 months but she has said she'll do it if I do any self harm, like cutting, punching stuff and even smoking >.<

Usually I vent my frustration by skating but i've been terrible at that recently and it's making me worse. Same Happens with talking, I just have to think and think about the problem more and it becomes bigger which really isnt good.

I don't know what to do any more

[FlyingJesus]

The best thing to do is to learn how to not let things frustrate you that much. That's not easy though, so as Mentor said, exercise. It really works well. Sitting alone listening to depressive songs may fit the mood at the time, but it just makes things worse, and that's not a good thing.

[Uwe]

Hey. I also self harm, or used to. but recently some of my teachers found out, thenmy parents.
and I've been seeing a docter. If it happens again, I could get sectioned..

I suggest you get help -.-

[Revis]

My school knows and my mum found out that I used to, but I used to be a bulimic, smoking, self harming mess and she thinks i've cheered up, although she is starting to realise i'm not right again.

[Jordan3]

My school knows and my mum found out that I used to, but I used to be a bulimic, smoking, self harming mess and she thinks i've cheered up, although she is starting to realise i'm not right again.

A little like me, apart from I never smoked.

[Emicat.]

Get more help!!!!!

Wow you have had alot of probs