Dose She?

[Anthol]

Well there is this pretty fit girl at school, We were texting and she knows I fancy her, and she 'Supposidly' likes me.
Well anyway she told her friend to give me her number, and we got texting and then I asked her out. she said yeh and it was happy days. About ten miniutes later she said come out for a bit, but I couldnt be botherd with me living far away and having to get the bus there and that I said no. So she kept ringing and going are you coming? I kept saying no and everything was ok, and in the end I got a message going 'You know when I said yeh it wasnt me it was my mate' so I wasnt botherd as like we hadnt been going out for a decent amount of time for us to build up a relationship sort of thing. So yeh I just ignored it, she rung me and said are you ok, but I just kept ignoring her and then in the end she rung me 13 times, and then I got a message saying 'I'l give you an answer tomorrow' and im like who do you think I am.
Ok this is in English she told me she fancied me, thsi was before the above btw.
I just dont know what to do, I've made a fool of my self already anyway, but yeh.

Any suggestions.
And dont give me all the ' it takes time Bs' because It dosent.

[Seacat]

Of course it takes time, the fact you are asking for relationship advice states the fact that you don't know everything, so when people say it takes time, they've been there, done it, and know about it.

[Hartleys]

Of course it takes time, the fact you are asking for relationship advice states the fact that you don't know everything, so when people say it takes time, they've been there, done it, and know about it.

Lol that's a really good point Seacat, also, trust me all girls say it was there mate who said it etc etc, Just ignore those kind of things and just see what happens.

[FlyingJesus]

Women are gonna mess you around all the time, it's just what they do. You have to be patient, let them play their game for a while and then just sit back and enjoy it when everything falls into place.

[edible]

Excuse me ? I dont mess people about :[
Not all women are like that at all. Some are but sensible ones arent.
But dude i suggest you try and talk to her.
Not through text. Like by msn if you have it.
And ask her whats gone on and how she feels..

[Callum.]

Lol that's a really good point Seacat, also, trust me all girls say it was there mate who said it etc etc, Just ignore those kind of things and just see what happens.

I agree. They normally do it when they want to go out with you, but want to mess you around first.

[Ostinato]

Well there is this pretty fit girl at school, We were texting and she knows I fancy her, and she 'Supposidly' likes me.
Well anyway she told her friend to give me her number, and we got texting and then I asked her out. she said yeh and it was happy days. About ten miniutes later she said come out for a bit, but I couldnt be botherd with me living far away and having to get the bus there and that I said no. So she kept ringing and going are you coming? I kept saying no and everything was ok, and in the end I got a message going 'You know when I said yeh it wasnt me it was my mate' so I wasnt botherd as like we hadnt been going out for a decent amount of time for us to build up a relationship sort of thing. So yeh I just ignored it, she rung me and said are you ok, but I just kept ignoring her and then in the end she rung me 13 times, and then I got a message saying 'I'l give you an answer tomorrow' and im like who do you think I am.
Ok this is in English she told me she fancied me, thsi was before the above btw.
I just dont know what to do, I've made a fool of my self already anyway, but yeh.

Any suggestions.
And dont give me all the ' it takes time Bs' because It dosent.

Your being mucked about mate. You deserve better. If shes going to tell you that she likes you and agree to go out with you, and encourage you on by texting you etc. then just because she doesn't get her own way from day 1, so she dumps you - she's not worth it.

However, if you really do like her then stick at it. You need to speak to her one on one, none of this 'through friends speaking' business. Just tell her what you think, and like you say "you've already made a fool of yourself", so whats the point in holding back now? Just say to her what you make of the whole situation, and that you do like her and would like to give it a go but don't like being mucked about, then see how it goes from there.

Also, about you saying it doesn't take time - of course it does. If you rush into a relationship blindly, you don't actually know anything proper about the person in question, that matters. The key to a good relationship is communication, and if you go jumping in the deep end straight away, your ignoring this whole factor to begin with.

Good luck!

[foxyfox00]

I would bother becuase she's treated you like c**p. But if you have strong feelings I suggest taking things slow to avoid hurtfull rejection