My almost best friends girlfriend!

Fiddle-Sticks · 02-06-2006, 10:10 PM

Okay here is what happened:
About 3 weeks ago my friend met this girl at a pub and they started goining out so they wanted to go to the cinema a few days later. My friend didnt want his mother knowning he had a girlfriend so he asked me to come. She was a fine and I mean F-I-N-E- buer so we went to the cinema. He was egnoring her a bit and she was shy and didnt talk so I made her feel welcomeish by trying to get her chatty by asking her questions. Then when we were going into the cinema he went in first and I went in second and held the door open for her and then she threw me a "hi I wana get off with you" look! (lmao but true) but I egnored it, knowning they she was his girlfriend. Anyway I kept threatin her nice while he was kinda egnring her. I told him and he siad she was just shy. About half way threw The De Vinci Code we left because it was sooooooo boring! We went to a car park for a *** and when we were there she winked at me! (I just got a txt from her while I was writing that!) Anywho, I kinda started thinking she liked me. So, I egnored it but it was in my mind. A while later she left and my friend was going to sleep at my house when his mother wouldent let him (complete differant story). At about 11 that night we went to the cinema again and we were the only ones in it so I thought I should text her messing saying "xxxxxx thinks you like me" and then I showed a pic on my phone and he looked threw them and she text back then. So he text her back. When I asked him for my phone back he sat up tryin to keep it from me. He was textin her for a while and one point about an hour after I text her - he threw a bottle at the screen cas he was so Peed off! Later he stopped texting her and he deleted her nomber off my phone. About 5 days later she text me saying "wt ya up 2" and I asked her who she was and she siad who she was and we started texting. About 5 hours later it was like 3 am and I asked her did she like me and she siad she did and I was like :| "In what way" and she siad she likes me in "that way, you know!" and we started getting very flirty! She siad she didnt tell him anything but she siad she wanted to dump him for me and I was like "HELL NO!!!"! So we went on textin as friends. Sending pics of eachother. Now I'm texting her while shes texting me. He won't text me back when I text him. Right now me and her are textin about dose he know. She siad that he told her that he loves her!
I'm here stuck in the middle :s :s

Ostinato · 02-06-2006, 10:47 PM

Okay well... you need to decide if you really like her, and you think that something decent can come out of this relationship, or that it would just be a bit of fun and you and your mates friendship isn't worth ruining for it...

No matter what, your mate needs to split with her anyway. She has made it clear she likes someone else, so there's no point him trying to fool himself into believing she wants him.

You also need to take into consideration, that shes willing to be texting another boy and getting flirty etc. whilst she is already in a relationship, so if shes willing to do it to your mate - then why would she not be willing to do it to you...?

To me, friendship would be more important but it's obviously completely up to you, but remember - girls come and go, friends are there forever.

~~j0rd$~~ · 03-06-2006, 12:20 AM

To be honest this girl doesn't sound worth it. If she's winking at you and flirting with you on a first date with her boyfriend, then I'd say she sounds like a bit of a slut.

Also, keep working on the grammar, maybe one day that won't be so hard to read. :]

**FlyingJesus** · 03-06-2006, 01:06 PM

She's going to cheat on him with someone, so just keep clear until she does and if you still just want a bit of fun with her then snatch her up after he gives her the boot.