Why..

[WHANGFACE]

Why is it that all relationships bugger up. I've been with the same person since April 2nd now, we've been through a hell of alot together. Yeah, we met on the internet, not exactly the best circumstances no, but I have met him in real life and will continue too, if things go the the way I hope.. But the thing is, at first it was gret, no problems what so ever, and he ment the world to me. We met up, 2 of our other net friends came aswell, and it was a great day. The minute we got back we arranged to meet again, and it was all planned and everything, he was even going to ask if I could stop over the night, as he lives a good 2 hours away. But then, the day before the meet approached, I was talking to him on msn, and then he suddenly goes offline. So I wait a few minutes, nothing. then I get a text off him saying 'Don't come down tomorrow, I don't want to see you' By this yeah, I was pretty upset and shocked. Later on that day I tried ringing his house, and his mum picked up, I asked if he was there, she hesitated, whispered somtihng to someone close by and then said hes out and slammed the phone down. An hour or so later, his dad phones me and has a go at me, says I'm not allowed to see him until I'm 18. And that if I was to contact him again or go to his house that I'd suffer the consiquences. Yeah I see that as a threat.. But I did contact him, I witheld my number and rung until he picked up - which was never. Also, got 2 girls to ring and ask for him, but no, his parents wern't having none of it. no hear from him for what, over a month, nearly 2.. I was really upset, you can ask anyone who knows me well enough to know what I was going through. but after about a month, he got his mobile back, and we started texting loads. But then he forgot to delete the texts from me and his dad read his phone. Obviously it got taken and I got another threatening lecture from his dad. But then about 2 weeks after that [which was about a week ago now] He got his internet back, and he seemed not to be intrested at all.. So I spoke about splitting, but then he gave me stuff like. "Oh how could you, all we been through, I car about you." ect. ect. Then for a few days he seemed to act normal, and now hes computer has just 'broke' and he is ignoring my texts, but he doesn't want to split up.

Am I being strung along, I really don't know WHATS going on and its really getting to me.. Also, his dad did say a few other things that I won't post obn the forum. but I really need help. I'm so confused about what I should do and stuff.. Never really done this before so. If you can't be bothered to read it all [which most of you won't] don't reply because you proaly won't get the full story.

But if you did read it all, thanks, and what should I do?

[Stab]

I read it all edit in a min
Ok do you know why hes not allowed to see you?
Is it something to do with meeting via the internet?
Or something about being gay.
I honestly think you are gonna have to meet up with him again, get things sorted.
His parents can't have control over him until hes 18.
16 maybe, but not 18.
I suggest you ring him, if he has his mobile, as his pc is broke (id trust that it is broken, its just a bad coincidence). He cant avoid a text like he can a phone call.

[WHANGFACE]

Erm, okay.. Thanks I guess.

[Drooped]

get over it until frisc0 is old enough to move out.

[WHANGFACE]

Oh get lost Allan, all you do is take the mick out of people, its not as if you really care for anyone, go get some emotions idiot .

& Tomathy, I think its because hes gay tbh, his mum was fine about it, she knew about me.. Until his dad found out, then it all went down hill. His mum has even seen me so she knows I'm not some psyco perv.

[Stab]

buh drooped does have emotions, he cried ova habbo ( boo hoo
yes drooped, get some proper emotions.
edit, ok umm, dads are so silly, most dads are homophobic tbh. I know there would be much information you could extract from the mum's voice on the phone, but ya know sometimes you can, do you think the mums opinion of you has changed because of the dad, or does the mum just not care

[the wombats]

get over it until frisc0 is old enough to move out.

Get lost. Its a good couple of years before both of them can move out, ok?

Oh get lost Allan, all you do is take the mick out of people, its not as if you really care for anyone, go get some emotions idiot .

& Tomathy, I think its because hes gay tbh, his mum was fine about it, she knew about me.. Until his dad found out, then it all went down hill. His mum has even seen me so she knows I'm not some psyco perv.

So its all cause of his dad. Just keep trying to phone him Ben. Jamie might be the same way about you with not being able to keep in touch.

[Barwy]

Maybe the boys father didn't like the thought of his son being gay and totally stopped the relationship so that he could live easier thinking that his son wasn't gay. Thats my first impression of it to be honest.

I can't see much wrong with gay people myself, and I'm not sure how certain people can have problems with them.

his dad over-reacted a little possibly and brainwashed his son in a way.

Hope it all gets sorted out soon, if not you could always wait until you are both 18...

-James

[Drooped]

NEXT TIME ADD "DROOPED DON'T REPLY" not that i'll listen BUT STILL at least you said it. and the weird guy who can't spell craig... urm NO?

[Barwy]

Drooped, a little less aggressive, K?

If you want to be agressive, dont do it in this thread.

"go get some emotions idiot ." - Posted by Fuddle. I think i agree in a way