School Stress

[-Undiscovered]

Ok, so im on a diet,been on one for 8 months, my mates make jokes about it saying im fat as a joke, but its got to the point were it not funny,the sort of 'leader' of our group and two of my best friends have started to like, hold me down and try and force sweets down me, i was nearly cring today because im so upset and stressed because of it, if i say somthing then i will be made fun of even more ( seen somthing like this happen before) and i dont want to stop hanging round with them , because theres really nice people there, one of my mates has noticed and tried sticking up for me, but what on earth do i do? Please help me its making me stressed so much.

[Ostinato]

Okay well, calling you fat started as a joke and it was deemed okay, but now they think they can just call you it whenever they want. In future, if they say your fat just say 'well look at you then', and if it continues, tell them your sick of it and it was funny to start with but now it's just out of hand.

I'm not sure exactly what you mean by 'forcing sweets down you', as no-one can literally force you to eat something, and if they are then that's a whole different kettle of fish.

If they continue to call you names etc. then your better off without them, and you could simply just blank them out of your life and concentrate on your other friends, cause you really don't need friends like that!

[-Undiscovered]

thanks, they try to hold me down and and someone pushes sweets in my mouth, the thing is the 'leader' of the group is horrible, like i said, it happend before with somthing like this, and even though she left the group about a year ago she still bullies her, i think im just going to say it, if they hate me, then im sure my best mates will atleast try and stick up for me, i have so many of there secrets and there doing this to me. There just followers.

[Callum.]

Tell them that you don't find it funny anymore. Tell them you're actually trying too loose weight and the best thing they can do is encourage you.

If they continue, find some friends that take you for who you are and won't call you names like fat etc.

[Charlie]

This seems like a form of bullying, as they are calling you names & forcing you to do things, and you shouldn't let it happen. Tell someone, eg, your teacher, parent, someone who can do something.

Also, if they are doing this to you, just leave them & ignore them. Go & find someone who isn't going to pick on your & call you names, someone who likes you for who you are, maybe they'll help when the bullying starts again.

[-Undiscovered]

the thing is, its making me even more depressed, i just hate being with them, and i think your right, they are bullying me, if tomorrow they continue, i will just walk away from it, thankyou for your help

[ItsDave]

They are not nice people if they make fun of you.
Make a point of saying, yeah, Ive heard it before, getting old now.

People called me Daffyd off Little Britain? Then I came back 2 people said "alright Daffyd?" I went "Right, bit old now dont you think?"

They shouldn't be taunting you about your size, thats not what friends do, just tell them that if they're that sad enough to sink that low, to taunt as if to give you food, then I dont want to be friends with you any longer, hope this helps. Good luck.

[foxyfox00]

These people dont sound like friends.
I'd tell them to stop. You dont find it funny and that it hurts.
Girls can be like this, but your situation has gone too far.

Take a brake and hang with a different crew until you get things resolved.
Or just make some new friends to hang with

[omgabear]

The answers simple. Kill them all.