I hate being the one who

[Fireworkz.]

is always left out in my family
I'm the one who's always being ignored etc.
My cousin Joe gets MOST of the attention from my family
my brothers starting to get attention cause of his new baby.
Is anybody else like me?
It is well annoying

[shenk.]

I've been like that my whole life - I liked it personally... ment I could just walk out of the house and there was about a 80% change they woulden't notice even if i was out till the next day or something....

It is annoying but there are some good points to it ;]

[Ostinato]

Aw, I'm sure it only seems like this but isn't actually as harsh as you think. I do know where your coming from, but I doubt your parents delibratley set out to isolate you and ignore you from everyone else.

Like you say, your brothers got a baby now - so obviously him and his child are going to be the centre of attention for a while, but when your older and have a kid it'll most likely be the same.

If you really do think this is a big issue, then I suggest you simply say to your mum and dad your feeling left out of thing's, and basically just tell them exactly how you feel about everything.

[PRADAxPRINCESS]

i av da same prblm.
ma step dad nvr listns 2 mi and nvr buyz me anyfin and den sumtimes wen am spkn 2 mi mum hes lyk *+*interuptz*+
and i w0z s0 upsetz yes2day bcoz me and mi mum wer ment 2 go out 4 tea togeva and den he **** >:[

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[sarey]

is always left out in my family
I'm the one who's always being ignored etc.
My cousin Joe gets MOST of the attention from my family
my brothers starting to get attention cause of his new baby.
Is anybody else like me?
It is well annoying

I'm just the same, im sure alot of people are.

Your family will be paying attention more so to your brothers newborn because he/she is new to the family and your brother probably needs some help/support.

But dont worry about it, just try to join in with them if they are focusing on someone else more so than you, try and join in with them so they know you're trying to get some attention and care too.

Hope this helped.

[the-dark-omen]

nooo, im a lonely child lol

[Dan2nd]

Aw, I'm sure it only seems like this but isn't actually as harsh as you think. I do know where your coming from, but I doubt your parents delibratley set out to isolate you and ignore you from everyone else.

Like you say, your brothers got a baby now - so obviously him and his child are going to be the centre of attention for a while, but when your older and have a kid it'll most likely be the same.

If you really do think this is a big issue, then I suggest you simply say to your mum and dad your feeling left out of thing's, and basically just tell them exactly how you feel about everything.

Dude I have middle childsyndrome Lol so I feel the same I have told them how I feel and they told me not to be stupid yet it is real for example:

We're all watching TV I'm talking to my brother and my mum says 'Dan be quiet we're trying to watch' I'm like fair enough then my sister walks in the pride and joy of my parents and all the rules are dropped shes aloud to talk as much as she likes then when I confront them with this shes like' OMGZ I'VE JUST GOT BACK FROM WORK BLAAAA' so I'm left feelin totally peed off then my mum and dad wanna know why I'm mad

heres another example:

Me and my brother are argueing about something he flippin punches me so I give him a thump back then he goes off to my mum and rolls around the floor as if I chopped his arm off and I get yelled at when I say he punched me first oh no but I'm old enough to know better it dosn't matter

I'm so glad this thread is here because I'm just in the right mood for it :@