I've fancied this girl for 2 years

[Rob]

Hey,

Ok, well there's this girl I've fancied for about 2 years. I've never asked her out, but we're really good friends. I really really like her but I can't find the words to ask her out. Last time I saw her (About 2 months ago) we went to West Park (A huge park, mostly just trees, grass and stuff) and when she wasn't talking to anyone, she kept coming to me and talking to me. That night I tried to ask her out on MSN, but I couldn't really find the words. I said there's something I have to tell you, then she went offline. Was this a hint or just coincidence?

I really want to ask her out, but I'm scared of rejection and ruining our friendship. What should I say to her?

Thanks,
Rob

[RareWolf]

flirt with her abit and see what she does.. if she gives the right signs go for it

[Vic Vance2]

well sorry to bring up this probability but mayb coz u sed theres summit neeed 2 tell u then mayb she thinks u were gunna say u were gay or summit

[brandon]

well sorry to bring up this probability but mayb coz u sed theres summit neeed 2 tell u then mayb she thinks u were gunna say u were gay or summit

Well if the reasons she went offline was because she thought he was gonna say he's gay then surely that's good signs? That could mean she wanted you too and was dissapointed with the thought of you being gay.

[Rizla]

She probably just got d/ced o.O Why would she think he was gay because he said he had something he needed to tell her?

[OmgAMark]

2 Years?

If you've liked her for that long and wont ask her out... how do you think the relationship will manage?

Also, dont go over msn, thats just depressing for a girl. Ask her in real life... whats the worse that can happen?


You: Hey, do you want to go out with me?

Her: OH GOD NO *kicks shins and pulls down pants exposing your tiny self*

Then everyone points at you and laughs and your parents run away from you and your expelled and a group of hobos hack your arms off....


no its not going to be like that, just get some balls and do it.

[Samster]

It could break up your relationship if she says no,as it will cause resentment

[RyaREXIC]

LOL, you asked her out over msn.. bad move, ask her in real life.

[tailz]

She wants to know that you aren't weak, and you like her alot. As people have said, real life.

[Snape]

Ahhhh "love" =] basically flirt flirt and more flirting, like i always hold a girl from behind by the hips and play with her bra =] [ I'm a very confident 13 year old boy ] Anyhu, if you don;t have the confidence to do this, there is always MSN.... not a hands on approach but it works =] basically just ask her who she likes out of your "gang" thats you go out with, and if she starts doing blushing emos or goes offline, for me this has always been a good sign, and when she says i gtg give her hearts and kisses emos =] always good hope this helps