help?

[benjamin]

ok, right. recently i've been a bit .. bleh. and i've just wanted to meet someone who was gay/bi irl? not even for a relationship really.. just to talk to. like someone my own age and stuff. but i really don't know how to go about itt.

like, i've been thinking maybe i should just tell everyone and get it over and done with, because 6 of my mates know and they don't give a **** lol. but then on the other hand i'm reluctant because someone is bound to react badly.

baah.

[uh huh her]

well i'm guessing the six people you've told are your closest mates. you should just go for it, people will react badly, but as long as you have the six mates who don't care, it shouldn't really matter what anyone else thinks else, if you get me.

[benjamin]

well i'm guessing the six people you've told are your closest mates. you should just go for it, people will react badly, but as long as you have the six mates who don't care, it shouldn't really matter what anyone else thinks else, if you get me.

yeah they are. and yeah that's a good point.. fanx u amy :}

[Barkseh2131]

Don’t tell everyone. Just don’t keep it a secret?

[myke]

this kid told everyone he was gay by wearing a tiara too school saying "IM GAY" and he was a nerd and got bullied for it. But yeah everyone's fine with it now. They just make him stand outside whilst we're changing in the changing rooms ;/ I don't rly care he's a sorta friend of mine but Ben, just go ahead with it. There's nothing stopping you- just fear and if it does turn out badly just say " i woz jokin" naa. joking don't - just ignore them, you are who you are and no-one can change this.

[benjamin]

Don’t tell everyone. Just don’t keep it a secret?

i don't keep it a secret as it is
my mates are just so dosile they don't realise :rolleyes:

&fnx mykee

[myke]

what does dosile mean?

[Joemaphobe]

I think you should tell everyone..
If they react badly it's there problem & not yours.
& you know if any thing happens you have 6 good friends to rely on & look for help in.
Who knows if you come out you might meet more people like you who are afraid to come out in case people react badly.

Hope that made sense..

[benjamin]

what does dosile mean?

uhh like, stupid.

&yeah, thanks joe! :}!!!

[hobo]

what does dosile mean?

it's docile, and it means like slow

and bennybum, i think you should just be open with it.
it'll give you one less thing to worry about, and if anyone does react badly to it, you know they're not worth your time :]