i'm wondering what to say to my friend..

[-Soph-]

I need to give her some advice..

right, last night she got drunk and had a one night stand with a 21 year old, she doesn't remember any of it (she is 15, and she has a boyfriend, which is the main problem...), anyway, she told her boyfriend because she is honest, he obviously flipped at her... they've not broken up, but she needs some advice on what to do..

anyone got any?

+rep for the goodies.

[Sly]

get checked out for STI's.

[-Soph-]

she plans to do that and everything...

but i'm after advice about what to do with her boyfriend mainly, he went mad... which I understand I guess, but her boyfriend is an idiot, he can't stand it when things don't turn out his way or someone disagrees with him

[Cwmbran]

I don't think theres much advice we can give, because it's all upto the boyfriend what happens next.

Your friend did the right thing about telling him though and he should understand that she was drunk and it did not mean anything.

[:Hazel]

get checked up & then learn from her mistake and attempt to move on...

[-Soph-]

well she didn't mean to do it, she planned to get drunk yeah, but not to do what she did, her boyfriend can't accept what she did and he won't move on and let it go, and he probably won't imo, I fell out with him over something really stupid like that

[Mr.Sam]

was her drink spiked or was she just too drunk?

[krimzen]

If hes annoyed with her and just flys of handle at everything whats she doing with him anyhow? Id say end it tbh... But dunno how long they have been going out. ^^

[FlyingJesus]

tbh I don't believe that begin drunk and the whole "it didn't mean anything" excuse is valid, for anyone. Cheating is cheating.

[Ashley 12344]

tbh I don't believe that begin drunk and the whole "it didn't mean anything" excuse is valid, for anyone. Cheating is cheating.

I suppose its a lesser form, but you should never get to the stage where you have 0 control.