What to do?

[Toughened]

Well I'm 14 and I really want to start having proper relationships. I don't know it's hard to explain.

I'm not the type who goes out very much although me and my other friend are the ones who organize when and where we go out, when we do actually finally get together and go out. We only go out about 2 times a month if that and we only ever stay with the people we know and don't meet new people.

I do like people in my school but they seem more friends than anything and I don't want to make our friendship's awkward by making more of them. Plus if I did do more it would feel weird as they are friends.

Erm help or ideas anyone?

[blah blah blah]

Since no one else is going to say the obvious....

Your young. Youve got ages to have a long time relashionship. Not alot of girls mature at 14 so your going to have a hard time finding someone who wants the same as you. And if you manage to go out with someone older and mature your going to force yourself to grow up. Girls dont usually go for young guys because girls are trying to find mature guys and mature guys are usually older (I should know, im a girl with a bf 1 and a half years older then me) ANYWAY! to sum up...

Too young.
Not many mature girls your age.
Girls like older boys.

SO!, Dont worry about a long relashionship because your probaly not ready for one. Just go out and meet new people so when you feel your ready for a relashionship you have a HUGE variety to pick from

[Simmzay]

14? I wasn't interested until 16. I don't think one of that age can really sustain an important relationship but I might be wrong.

You can never just start a serious relationship, it builds that way over time. You start off then it gains momentum, and with time the seriousness comes.

[Toughened]

Thanks you two. Guess yas are both right I have a long time to get into stuff like that yet I suppose I should be enjoying this age while I can. +Rep to you both and thanks for the advice.

[dirrty]

your education is more important. being in a relationship is good, but its not your priority, or it shouldnt be anyway.

[:Delirium]

I dont see why you need a girlfriend anyways? whats the reason you want one? to show off to your friends that you have a girl? Get a little older and i think you will understand what im saying

[I3rap]

You should care more about school then impressing your friends with the cutest girls.

Girls you age are into older boys, same in my school, I accept it and hunt the ones down for arn't.