Had enough

[@K]

I'm at the erge of getting kicked out of my house. I'm 16, and my brother was 16 when my dad threw him out the house. Me and my dad both have very short tempers, which collide very often. Now a few weeks back now, I came home a few hours late (I do it regularly), and my dad came into my room, and he asked me what I had taken (I am not a pill head or anything like that, used to smoke weed but that's it). Now he has heard that apparently I took coke before, which I told him because it wasn't true. So anyway, I was sat on my bed, listening to him, and because I lost my temper, he punched me straight in the face, I had drunk quite a bit so I just laughed (even though I drive a moped I drink regularly so i'm used to driving home ******, and my family know that) so yeah, and since that night, he has been threateing to kick me out of the house, I don't know what to do, we don't speak to each other, just when I've ****** him off in one way or another and he tells me to leave.

So, what should I do?

[jrh2002]

Stop at friends or relatives if you can and they dont mind or maybe look for a cheap apartment with a mate if you are doing a bit of work to pay for it.

[today]

enter the real world tbh, better off without him. Tell your mum?

[beth]

apologise for coming home late; cause it is his house. but stay away more often, don't put yourself in the place where you likely to wind eachother up.

[blah blah blah]

A few of my friends have problems with this. My parents were always threating to kick me out but once my mum said to me secretly that they were just trying to scare me. So what my friends do is stay at each others houses and it would go on for months. One of my friends even got emancipated from her mum and is now staying with her bf. she pays the parents rent because she has a job and is on center link but their parents are like really REALLY nice people. so either do that or just come home on time!

I dont know if you can get emancipated cause your 16 but i dont know the age limit over there. [Btw my friend got emancipated at 15 and now shes 16]

Hope that helps

p.s i dont know if emancipated is the right word. But she went to court and is now a legal adult. lol

[Earthquake.]

Sue him for punching you, Buy the house you live in, Sorted.

[Jazza]

I am unsure of the laws in Spain but at 16 you are still a minor and that counts as child abuse. If I were you I'd apologize to him and tell him that if he kicks you out you will go to the police.

[GrAcE ShOrT]

Sue him for punching you, Buy the house you live in, Sorted.

That would really sort his problems out, wouldn't it? Honestly, do you not think about anything before you post it? That would just make his dad even angrier, and he'd get laughed at in court, they wouldn't even get that far. If you're so angry with your dad, then just stay out of his way and go elsewhere, don't be in the house as often. As Birmz said, it's his house, not yours.

[:Hazel]

i'd keep out of his way & perhaps stay somewhere else temporary until you have both cooled down. also maybe change your behaviour slightly by not giving him an excuse to punch you by turning up on time and not laughing in his face etc.

[Shawnstra]

You could tell your mum about this, probs you can live with your auntie/uncles.