Does she like me?

[UnsureTeen]

Hi sorry, I made a new account for this and I really want to know. Ill start from the top.

Well I've known this girl online for ages and we cam and microphone alot and we've been good mates. But since i broke up with my ex we've been getting along a lot more and I kinda fancy her. Well anyway Im pretty sure she knows I like her but I don't know if she likes me. Her friends say she does but she doesnt seem to show any signs or anything to me?

And shes been spending a lot of time on the phone and texting me lately, she topped up 15£ and wasted it in two days mostly talking to me. Well I really do like her but we're great mates and I dont want to ask her out if its gonna ruin things between us. So do you think she likes me or not?

Are there any simple ways to tell or find out?

Thanks for all the help I can get.

[English]

Any girl that says it'll ruin friendship is letting you down gently.

I say go for it, you only live once!

Btw who is it? And who are you?

[UnsureTeen]

She didnt say it will ruin the friendship. Im just worried if i ask her out and she doesn't really like me that much we'll be uncomfortable being friends because I wanted more?

I didnt want people to know who I am thats why I made a new account.

The first letter to my name is J and hers is A, You probably dont know either of us.

Thanks for reply and fast reply! I would +rep but i got 0 count.

Edit: And I really do want to go for it and just ask her out its just if she does say no, i dont want the friendship to get messed up cause thats happened before with a girl that asked me if I wanted to go out with her.

[H]

Hey, firstly, tell her how you feel. It is clearly obvious she has a thing for you, as nobody is stupid when it comes to this.

You would ONLY constantly talk to somebody if you liked them as this is the simplist way to show someone you like them. If she wasnt interested, you would know about it.

friends come and go, could you really see yourself speaking to her as a 'friend' in 20 years time? i doubt it. so why not take your chances? you really do have nothing to lose, except a friendship that, tbh, most people can give. love is rare to find.

[UnsureTeen]

I suppose ill just build up the confidence and why do you say its obvious she likes me?

And its not that we constantly talk, just recently whenever she tops up she wastes most of it on me.

[Jackk]

get drunk and ask her, it will all come out easily.

[UnsureTeen]

I tend to try not too much contact with people i care about when im drunk, Could say the wrong thing. Plus I wouldn't do most things when im drunk let alone ask out someone i really like. You're not very helpful im afraid.

[WarezKid]

This happened to me over the last few weeks ;] We going out now


I think you should talkt o her more and how lond have you known her?

i knew mine for atleast a year before asking her out. oh and make sure she not a lair, happened to me one lol