Blummin' hell...

[Pyroka]

Second relationship trouble in two weeks, with different girls for gods sake, and what time better to do it than NYE/NYD!

Basically, I was at a party last night for NYE, and there's a girl I sort of like however I can't decide whether I like her as a friend or more than a friend. Cutting a long story short, she got quite close to me throughout the night for some reason, and I just didn't say no because I hate hurting peoples feelings and she was drunk too which may explain a bit too. >_<

She went for my hand and quite literally dragged me around her at times, despite I really wasn't playing along. At new years countdown, the clock sounds and the one girl who hugged me first? Her! Without blummin hesitation! >____< I sat my mate outside and he had no idea what I could do, as she was drunk and she's a sensitive person anyway... Erk. Worst part about it was that when I left, she followed me to the door and gave me a hug outside when everyone else went in. Really, rather hard to cope.

I'm just wondering... How the hell can I tell her that I just want to be friends with her? Maybe she was drunk, and this is over-reaction but it's on my mind and my thoughts spill out. Anyone else had something like this too? It's really rather awkward.

[Leuven]

Ask her if she remembers anything from that night.
If she says no try to recap it for her, then explain the situation and how you only want to be friends with her.

[Teyauna.]

That's the only way you could do it. But try to be as nice as possible.

[Superman]

Sleep wi.. oh wait I'm not allowed to say that any more. Errm yeah just ignore her advances and see if she gets the hint, if not you'll have to actually word it out to her.

[Ramones]

Sleep wi.. oh wait I'm not allowed to say that any more. Errm yeah just ignore her advances and see if she gets the hint, if not you'll have to actually word it out to her.

damn right, you should of got some action

[Jamesy]

so you didn't take advantage of a drunk girl? What man are you...

[Janet Snakehole]

so you didn't take advantage of a drunk girl? What man are you...

lolol @ that.

Just be truthful with her, thats all you can do. Even if she is sensitive, Im sure she'd respect you more if you told her the truth than rather just lie and go along with it.

[Ashley 12344]

so you didn't take advantage of a drunk girl? What man are you...

Hes just a woman, with a little more.
Aka a CWD (abb - Chicks with ****s )

[Pyroka]

Cheeky sod! No I'm just very sensitive and I try to care for what women need. I guess some guys don't say it out loud as it makes them feel a bit of a puff but really, I don't care. Feelings take their true course whether they be public or private. Anyway, I ain't talked to the girl since and her mates are ignoring me. I feel the worst, but I'll find out this Friday if the weather is ok. On the other hand, I think it's because I was so tender (not sure about the wording there) about me and my girlfriend splitting up, I just looked for some comfort.

Hehe, I just wanna brag more because I found out today that in my old school, I used to be one of the "fancyboys" in my year. Most of them were chavs, so they only cared about smoking and sex really. Oh and drugs, can't forget the drugs! But yeah, me and my mate were apparently two of the few "fancyboys" in our old year. I was in awe, yaya.