The mess gets even more worse:S

[Rix]

Ok so since my last thread her boyfriends got back.

The night before her boyfriend got back she decided that she wanted to flirt with me and when i starting telling her to stop she kept calling me a *****. so anyway her boyfriend gets back and i just sent a message on my phone.
The message pretty much says that she no longer wants to have me in her life and that everything she said and did to me meant nothing. So in other words she used me!
Its annoying though cause every sunday night i go to a youth group (she also goes) and yeah we share the same mates but i'm forced to hang out with myself because apparently its my fault that she kissed me so yeah i have to suffer with it although she made the first move and she's walking free from it all while i'm breaking down and feel like crap.
Argh i have no idea what to do.

[VPSwow]

Just go out as usual. She will be the one feeling unconfortable not you. And has she told your mate/ her bf about this because if yes tell your mate. And tell him lasses shouldnt come before friends.

[Rix]

Nah its more the fact with him back i feel really gulity i'm one of those people who if they do something wrong i feel really guility about it.
Yeah but shes more like his best mate / girl friend he's always pushed people out and always will i mean he never has time for any1 else these days

[blanky12!]

Nah its more the fact with him back i feel really gulity i'm one of those people who if they do something wrong i feel really guility about it.
Yeah but shes more like his best mate / girl friend he's always pushed people out and always will i mean he never has time for any1 else these days

relax.

what can he do when your out.

surely if your with people they'll stick up for you.

[Rix]

Lol true i spoke to him and we cleared it all up, however she's not allowed to talk to me now? he taking one of my bestfriends away from me is that right?

[Mr.OSH]

I can understand why you feel that way. The best thing you can do is simply act like nothing has happened in the best way possible and try to put it in the past and move on and be sure not to trust her in that sort of a relationship in the future. Try not to let it affect you too much as it could damage your friendship with others. Just try to battle on and I'm sure eventually things will improve and get better, I hope they do for your sake. I'm aware of how much it hurts when you have been used but trying to get and putting it to the back of your mind is all that you can do, try to concentrate on other friendships and put her aside.

Good luck. I hope things get better for you.

[Rix]

Thanks Jay u are a true mate

[Catzsy]

Seriously she is a tease and doesn't deserve you. Think of something that you have never done but would really like to do and do it. Shout at the wall, kick pillows and get angry. You will have learned from this experience and be a lot wiser from it and someone that really deserves you will come along.
The very best of luck to you

[lew!]

Yup she used you, but arrive before her at the youth club so you can explain to your mates what happened, give them the full story, not just her side. And now that you two are ok, just act as if its all ok, you dont need to be freinds, but you could just act civil.

[beth]

the more confident you are and carry on with your normal routine (etc), the more she will shy away. and henceforth; you can continue merrily with your life !