Girlfreind problems (for a freind)

[lewis-moody]

My girlfreind thinks im flirting with another girl, but im not. I get the idea she is planning to dump me. What should I do??

Advise please

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[Nixt]

No need to pretend it's "for a friend" here old chap! We understand people have problems and all that, no need to be embarrassed. My advice would be to talk to her and explain you're not flirting with this other girl and it is her you want. If she doesn't accept it dump her - she's clearly too paranoid and too much work.

[Breakfloor]

dump her first

[Daphne,]

Well, being a girl, I'd say you need to bust out a nice few lines. Real' deep and touching... telling her how beautiful she is, and that she's the only girl you ever pay attention too.
That oughta do it

[Devil.Wont.Cry]

Take her to the cimena or for a meal or what ever she likes to do and tell her that your not flirting with other girls because shes the only one for you. If she cant accept that then thats her problem not yours.

[Cwmbran]

Maybe you girlfriend thinks the girl in question is flirting with you, and she is annoyed because you have not told her to stop flirting but that could be because you havent realised that shes flirting with you.

As said before youve just got to reasure your girlfriend that she is the one you want not that other girl, how you do that is completly upto you, but there has been some good suggestions

[leah]

say : why would i ever need to flirt with another girl when I have you, I love you.

make her feel special

[Jaiisun]

You can either;

a) dump your girlfriend for the "flirty" girl
OR
b) save your relationship with your girlfriend.

That was sarcasm.
Don't EVER choose (a).

You need to talk to you girlfriend.
Talk and talk and talk.
You can't go on a relationship with feelings bottled inside.

You need to consider both of your feelings.
One key to relationships is trust, and if you're lacking it, you won't get very far.

Assure your girlfriend she has nothing to worry about.
Remind her she's the only one.
Tell her why you love her - girls like to know why they're special (so i've gathered, but girls, correct me if i'm wrong x])
Oh, and it'd probably help you to tell your girlfriend the girl you're supposed to be flirting with is an "ugly dog" or something along those lines.

Make sure she doesn't feel threatened by this girl.

And remember, you are still young.
So you don't exactly have to settle down right now.

[Born_To_Live]

That's just aload of crap. Just tell her how much she means to you and that you allways want to be with her, and that she is the light of your life

Take her to the cimena or for a meal or what ever she likes to do and tell her that your not flirting with other girls because shes the only one for you. If she cant accept that then thats her problem not yours.

[lewis-moody]

Thanks, just remember had this thread

It was or a freind btw, I had my own problem thread!

Anyway

It turns it it was all an April fools joke

Thanks for the help anyway guys!