Can anybody help?

[!d-generation-x]

Theres this lass I know that I have to admit I haven't met her...anyway, I kinda like her and she flirts with me all the time we talk. The problem is she has a boyfriend who is VERY protective of her. He don't like her talking to her male friends who she has known for ages. Anyway I brought the idea round a few months ago that we meet up but I don't think she knew I ment with her boyfriend and a few other people aswell, so she said no. Anyway, I tried again a few weeks ago pointing out that I meant that it was with her boyfriends and some friends aswell so she said that was a good idea and she would mention it to him. Since then we have been talking alot more and I have found out that he is VERY protective with the reason stated above. I asked her the other day if she had talked to her boyfriend about it and she said that she hadn't mentioned it yet to him but she had to her friends and they had thought it was a good idea. Anyway has anybody got any advice in this situation? Thanks for all the advice everybody.

[BaybeeElin]

I don't know if this will be much help to you, but she met you on the internet, she flirts with you, and then you expect to meet up?
Yeah, you both might seem to think its a good idea, but I can't blame her boyfriend for being protective.
C'mon, his girlfriend is flirting and planning on meeting up with a e-friend.
Is it really a good idea to meet her?

[!d-generation-x]

I don't know if this will be much help to you, but she met you on the internet, she flirts with you, and then you expect to meet up?

Yeah, you both might seem to think its a good idea, but I can't blame her boyfriend for being protective.
C'mon, his girlfriend is flirting and planning on meeting up with a e-friend.

Is it really a good idea to meet her?

We've already planned that we're meeting up and her friends seem to think it is a good idea. What I'm saying though is that her boyfriend is protective over everyone talking to her even people that she has known for ages. By the way, thanks for the help.

[splatttt]

I don't know if this will be much help to you, but she met you on the internet, she flirts with you, and then you expect to meet up?

Yeah, you both might seem to think its a good idea, but I can't blame her boyfriend for being protective.
C'mon, his girlfriend is flirting and planning on meeting up with a e-friend.

Is it really a good idea to meet her?

I really agree with that. I can understand why her boyfriends protective of her. If i had a boyfriend who spoke to girls on the net and arranged to meet them i wouldnt be too happy aha

[Digital]

[leah]

Right, I can understand why he's so possesive, if she flirts with guys over the net and arranges to meet them.
But if she was happy in her relationship she wouldn't flirt with you and arrange to meet you.
Maybe she likes you, but doesn't want to end her relationship until she's met you and knows for sure that she deffinately likes you.

[nathanreeves]

Well if she has a boyfriend i think you should leave it theres no point getting yourself like this in love with her and that as it will hurt u in the end mate

[Inseriousity.]

I'm confused. I'm assuming you 'like like' this girl because it's in the relationships section or are you intent on remaining friends?

Her boyfriend sounds very insecure and it is understandable when a girl he is going out with flirts with a boy she hasn't met before. Is that really the type of girl that you'd want to trust in a relationship? It sounds like the girl has made him insecure or a past experience in his life has made him protective.

In my opinion, I do not think you should meet her because you're like adding salt to more wounds? Is that the expression?? Bottom line is: you're making his problems worse.