a friend..

[Andys]

I have this friend who seriously clings to me wherever I go and it's really annoying :/. Then when my other mates are around he trys to act hard and ****. Then he just agrees with me on everything then when someone else says something he changes his mind.

it's so annoying and tbh i've realised my life would be loads better without him lol. but i dont wanna tell him to go away or stop being mates with me or something because i'd feel sly. I just wanna like be mates with him but stop him ruining my relationship with other people because he always interferes :/

help?

[Clowgon]

Theres only 5 ways out it.

Option 1. Sit him down and talk to him nice - tell him you need abit of time for yourself.

Option 2. Shout at him in front of your friends - Shout "Why are you keep following me are you in love with me"

Option 3. Bring him to your room, kiss him and propose to him, he will freak out and hopefully he will kiss you back or leave you alone.

So you going to +rep me?

[Minstrels]

Live your life by the knife and show him how to run it.

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Shank him.

[5,5]

Hes on your ****. Call him out on it in class. should have a good laugh

[Pyroka]

UGHHHH, like all my mates are like that its so annoying. I can't make any new mates because my other mates are constantly hawking me, and belittling me despite they're the ones who hang around me constantly.

ITS SO ANNOYING, ARGH. If I find a solution, I'll tell you but ****, same boat buddies.

[camera]

I have this friend who seriously clings to me wherever I go and it's really annoying :/. Then when my other mates are around he trys to act hard and ****. Then he just agrees with me on everything then when someone else says something he changes his mind.

it's so annoying and tbh i've realised my life would be loads better without him lol. but i dont wanna tell him to go away or stop being mates with me or something because i'd feel sly. I just wanna like be mates with him but stop him ruining my relationship with other people because he always interferes :/

help?

Hi. im in a similar situation tbh lol.

i know how you feel tho. this girl in my class always clings on me and nat its annoying. she'll like "hey girl where you gonna go after school?" "ill help you out!" "can i come with you?" "ive saved a seat for you in class!"

oh god i feel liek killing her sometimes. me and my bestie would like go out with her and such yeah but we'll make fun of her without her knowing it. i think she knows that we did make fun of ehr on purpose just didnt say anything ebcause in class, noone likes her. i feel bad because of that. shes like the class outcast you know?

what i do is just put up with her nonsense and when she starts moaning bout her boyfriend, ill just plug in my ipod. yeah but ive never ditched her because if i did, id feel guilty as hell. my classmates arent helping though they kept going "OOH WHOS YOUR NEW BFF" it made me really embarassed. idk, they made it sound as if hanging out with her is such a horrrrrible thing :/

the best part is that we all think she might really be a lesbian and mightve had a lesbian crush and me and my bestie which kinda freaks me out abit lol

Dont worry andy, youre prolly used to that friend of yours. soon you wont even care that hes clingy, cept for getting annoyed like once in awhile

[Andys]

still neeed help on this lol.
seriously i stand somewhere, he comes and stands next to me virtualy touching arse cheeks, i move and he doesn't get the message because he comes and does it again and again everytime i move.

and i'd feel sly tellin' him to do one lol.

[Jord]

This happend to me in year 1 - 4

He wasnt my mate back then but he allways used to follow me all the time when i said stop stalking me he used to go away for 2 mins then back following me

Then one day I told him to piss off and we got a new kid in our class at this time and he turnt to best friends with him lol

[Rizla,]

The best thing you can do is just tell him to back off.

[Stefy]

Why don't you ask another friend to say something about it to him? Like your friend sees him follow you and then he goes "Why are you always with him its like you follow him all the time" then he will get the idea that everyone thinks he is a tag along and will leave you alone and it won't be harsh, it will be more like a friendly push to make him know that he is being a tag along and stuff

One time at school this boy whose proper like.. not many friends type of person, I was talking to him in the lesson and I think he thought that because I spoke to him, he would automatically hang around with me.. and at break every step I made, he made one aswell and wouldn't go away so I went up to one of my mates and said "look I've got a tag along" and he goes up to him and said to him about it and he walked away lol and it wasn't really harsh or anything cos it wasn't like.. "OI WHY ARE YOU FOLLOWING HIM YOU STALKER, GO AWAY"