Not sure what to do.

[AndyDude312]

So here it is. I'm 15 and there's this girl who I had always kind of liked but nothing major. Then at my mate's birthday party we were doing 'spin the bottle' and I kissed her. Since then I haven't really been able to stop thinking about her and I'm not sure if it's just because it was kind of my first kiss (o.O ) or if its something more.

Also, I don't like being alone with my thoughts n feelings (partially why I'm writing this) so I was considering telling a close trusted mate. However the last time I felt this way and I told someone I trusted, it didn't end well. So should I ignore it, or tell someone? Before you say "tell her how you feel" let me say this:- while I may be too confident for my own good, I acknowledge the fact that I'm not the most attractive person in the world. I am in fact quite the opposite. So, yeh.

Also I'm in my last year of school so I might find a subtle way to ask her to prom 'as a mate'. And if it is something more, I don't want to leave it hanging around because we might go to different colleges and that would really bug me.

[ihatehash]

What does a spin-the-bottle kiss mean tbh.
and if you really do like her ask her to the prom as like the start of your relation ship but don't ask her "as a friend" if you don't want it that way.

[-K8T!E-]

Yeah dont ask her as a friend. Then she'll assume you just want to be friends and nothing more. I'd go for it and tell her you like her as more than a friend.

[Accipiter]

same problem just i don't think im minging.

If she screamed/cringed/leaned back when you kissed her give up, she might like you as a mate but might never imagine you as a bf.

I considered leaving it till the prom, but big mouthed friends were dropping hints all year, which tbh are never helpful and i could have punched them for. im still friends with her, now i find a girl at college stunning instead

[Immenseman]

it's only a kiss over the game so doesn't really mean much. at your age you should tell her, not friends imo anyway.

[JACKTARD]

well if you know she's out of your league then i would leave it.

[IceNineKills]

tell her now, longer you leave it the more it ain't gona happen.

[Lost]

just tell her!! The more you keep it bottled up the more you'll lose confidence in yourself to NOT tell her... and you never know if you leave it long enough it must just NOT happen.