Helpp please !

Lindsey · 12-12-2009, 11:30 PM

This may be abit confusing.. but ill start out with,

one guy. who i fell out with along time ago, has came around and apologized to me, and now we are friends.. now this other guy, who i have fancied for a long time, ! he fancies me aswell, but the only problem is , that the guy who i just became with friends, hates the guy who i fancy, so im not sure what to do...

1. Date the guy, and possibly lose the friend,
2. Keep both friends, :S .. im confused,

Sunnily · 13-12-2009, 04:14 PM

Date the guy and possible lose a friend. It is his job as a friend to go ahead and support your decisions. Not to get his history/past in your way or to get what he think in the way of your future.

kuzkasate · 13-12-2009, 06:34 PM

Date the guy, possibly loose a friend. Explain to your friend and anyway, why should a "friend" stop you dating someone... its afterall your choice. If your friend is a real true friend, he will understand and deal with it.

Meree. · 13-12-2009, 06:38 PM

I agree with both of the above. If you like the guy date him and lose the friend. Friends should be there to support you and your decisions and if he isnt going to do that then he isnt a true friend is he?

Lindsey · 13-12-2009, 08:02 PM

Thanks guys

Gnome · 14-12-2009, 01:24 AM

he shouldn't let the hatred between them two ruin your chance of happiness. So yeah, go with the get with him and risk losing a mate.

Cyndia · 14-12-2009, 05:56 AM

Yeah, pretty much what everyone else says.. go for the guy you fancy. If the other guy is really your friend he'll stick by your decision, and if not then he wasn't worth having as a friend, anyway.