Relationship that never happened..

[Samantha]

Well basically, my ex and his mate were drunk one night and began texting me. Saying they would both **** me and ****. Anyway, on the Monday I saw my ex and met his friend. Whilst his friend went to Wickes me and my ex were just walking back to college etc, and events happened then what I'm not explaining. PM me if you really want to know I guess.
Anyway, when we got back his friend was already there and greeted me and told me he was so sorry for the way he acted the other night. That night I was texting him and my ex simultaniously, and I really grew fond of his friend and vice versa. The next day, we met again, and events happened again, again PM me if you want. And then we got back to college. I had a lovely time with him and then after a while I told him I was heading off and he said bye, what you got next? I told him I had a free and went to KFC.

Anyhow, that afternoon about 5pm we were texting again, and he hadn't text for a while then I just got one randomly. As I can see the first part of the message I knew what was to come. 'I'm sorry we can't be....' in a relationshop etc. Which I didn't want anyway as it was far too fast. And it was because he just broke up with his girlfriend the other day and she was chatting **** about him. So I wasn't too miffed just missed him a lot. Still do. But I told my ex and I explained everything to him and he told me I had matured so much and grown up.

However, the friend said that in time we would be together. But now we hardly talk, he doesn't seem to like me at all and basically ignores me. So I just want to know did I get used or something. As I doubt he would even want a relationship anymore. +Rep just for advice etc.

[Inseriousity.]

Sorry but yes, looks like a 'rebound' to me

[Samantha]

Blame my ex, not me tbf!
I didn't see anything coming. But thanks anyhow.

[FlyingJesus]

Would make more sense if you said what these "events" were tbh, because rest assured my imagination goes far further than anything that you could have physically done and not be hospitalised from Also how long ago did all this happen? That will make a big difference to any help I can give

[Minstrels]

What were the events...

[Samantha]

Oh nothing big in events. lmao.
just a kiss/snog basically.
And it happened almost 2 week ago.

[FlyingJesus]

So basically you kissed your ex then kissed his friend and now the friend won't talk to you? If it's just kissing then I don't think that can count as being "used", he just decided against taking it further. It happens, you just have to sort of cut your losses and look to the future rather than hanging on for someone who's not interested

[Samantha]

We really had a detailed conversation last night. Turns out he's going through a tough time atm.
Like I said I don't really mind if he likes me or not,
Also, I'm not his rebound.

[cocaine]

Also, I'm not his rebound.

sorry but you kinda are. it happens.

[Bun]

a kiss was the 'events'? god that was boring lol