dumper or dumpee?

[velvet]

are you usually the one to end your relationships? ... or do people usually end them with you?
why'd you think that is?

[Cerys]

It's complicated - I'm a messed up person who generally doesn't think of other peoples feelings SOO

When I want to end it, I don't wanna feel bad about ending it. So what I do is I ignore them etc until they break up with me.
But in effect it's me who has started the.. breaking-up-ness?

im a bad person i know.

[AgnesIO]

It's complicated - I'm a messed up person who generally doesn't think of other peoples feelings SOO

When I want to end it, I don't wanna feel bad about ending it. So what I do is I ignore them etc until they break up with me.
But in effect it's me who has started the.. breaking-up-ness?

im a bad person i know.

Sounds more like a gutless person than a thoughtless person lol

[MKR&*42]

Only dated twice, first one dumped me, I dumped second one.

In the future they'd probably dump me causeee im awf.

[wixard]

it's really quite even, saying that i've only ever had 4 boyfriends
only one of them was longer than 5 months...

[Cerys]

Sounds more like a gutless person than a thoughtless person lol

No, I COULD Break up with them if I wanted to, but that would leave me feeling guilty/bad. so.
dont really wanna feel bad yeah.

[Samantha]

I've only had 2 proper boyfriends, but my first few, non serious ones I broke up with them. My ex broke up with me, but I could tell he was going to and I'm glad he did as I wouldn't know what to say.

[Disney]

I've had 3 serious relationships, with the first 2 girlfriends we ended it neutrally. With my last gf it ended ugly and me being dumped because we lived together and got sick of eachother which caused many fights.

[Inseriousity.]

Dumpee. Don't think I've ever broke up with anyone, mainly cos I'm a go with the flow type person who is relaxed and laidback about people's flaws. Need someone who can put up with mine haha

[David]

only been dumped once, i dumped the rest.