Could you be with a waster?

[sex]

I don't mean someone who like is in uni or finished uni and not working
I mean people who dont a-levels / do nothing all day other than sit around. would it annoy you? in the future if youre successful would you let them still sit around doing nothing and be with them???

just thought cause was watching benefit streets and guy dropped out college and just sat at home all day watching tv, drinking and thats it!!

thought?!?!?!!?!?!

what level of waster would you tollerate

[FlyingJesus]

Depends how hot they are

[buttons]

no cause am gonna be the waster

but nah don't think ive been attracted to someone who doesn't have the desire to learn or work for a living. don't think i ever will be and it would affect my relationship if they ended up that way.

[Yawn]

sounds like my kind of living

[Kardan]

I don't think I could be with someone that wasn't in education/work. Far too one sided.

[e5]

I'd get too pissed off if I was with a waster who wanted to do nothing with their life. I have dreams and aspirations and I wouldn't want them to hold me back!

[MKR&*42]

Depends how hot they are

tbf im actually gonna say this.

[sex]

I'd get too pissed off if I was with a waster who wanted to do nothing with their life. I have dreams and aspirations and I wouldn't want them to hold me back!

dw babe ur dreams are my dreams

[Kyle]

I couldn't be with someone with no aspirations, no goals or ambitions, no thoughts of what the future might hold. I understand putting life on hold, being 'in between jobs', etc. but not taking the piss and living off jsa or something and not even bothering to try to move forward and find something worthwhile to put their time into, sitting watching daytime tv when they could be doing something actually productive.

As much as I'd prefer an equal relationship where each party contributes the same, I don't think I'd really mind being the main breadwinner so long as my partner was still being productive and useful with their time and was happy doing whatever they chose 2 do.

[Absently]

probably not. i find it so exciting to hear about peoples aspirations and to hear my other half talk about that would make me fall even more in love with them, hearing about their plans in life or when they do get what they want in life hearing them talk about it!! it's such a lovely thing.