Need some help.

[Gnome]

yeah, to put this briefly as possible, my girlfriend thinks she's pregnant. She hasnt taken a test as of just now, But i think we're planning one, the thing is that she is too embarrased to buy one, and dosen't wantto go to the local youth place to get one becasue she'll be embarrased. I'm 15, 16 in May, she is 16. We didn't have unprotected sex, i've no idea what happened. Her last period was a week before she met me, and we've been together for around 1 month 1week and a bit, She has also complained about a sore stomach, But she hasn't as i know of been eating alot, could it just be a late period and tummy bug?

What also are my options, if she is pregnant?
And how could i go about telling my parents / her parents?

My parents and her's are the type that are going to flip.

tl;dr: gf is pregnant, wasnt unprotected sex; wasn't on purpose, answer my questions please?

Thanks in advance. xx

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[:Technical]

It probably is a tummy bug and a late peroid. Females peroids can come late sometimes and if you say you used protection then you should be safe.

Tell your parents and get advice from them also.

[Gnome]

How would i go about telling them? Id preffer to sit them down and tell them but at the same time, id like to write a letter explaining it all, and be out of the house when they get it. Im off into town anyway. Ill come check this thread laters, thanks xx

[:Technical]

Perhaps you should hint it? Or just hit out with it in one at night time then you can go to bed and wake up to see what your parents think.

There are lots of ways.

[Catzsy]

If she won't get a test then its either she is burying her head in the sand or she is not pregnant at all - merely is saying she could be which is quite common. I suggest you offer to buy the test for her and see what happens. No point telling anybody at the moment.

[BOO]

I wouldnt tell anybody, until you do a test. Go buy one for her, if she is too exbarassed. But there is no point in going through the hassle of telling your parents, until you have done a test.
What kinda of protection was used? If you dont mind me asking. As Im sure you know, condoms arent 100% effective. But if she was on the pill or something, then its very unlikely that she is pregnant.

In summary... Get a test done. IF she is pregnant, then I suggest telling your parents straight. Just be honest about it. It'll be worse if you put it off.

[Japan]

You'll never know until you get a test- I agree with Catzsy, buy one for her and she wont be embarrassed. Ask your parents for advice only if you feel comfortable about telling them, you could see a GP instead.

[Nicola]

I think it could just be a late period tbh.
Like the above have said she really needs to take a test and maybe you could buy it for her.
If she is pregnant - the best way to tell your parents is to sit them down together and tell them how you could really use their support. If they're the type of parents that will flip then give them some time and i'm sure they'll come to terms with it.
If you have anymore worries or concerns then you're best off talking to your GP.

[Gnome]

Hey, sorry for late replys, been with her all of today, we spoke about it. We're buying a test next weekend, Just giving it a little time so see if its a late period, I was thinking i could tell my brother, as im more close to him than my parents and maybe he could have a word with them, and maybe i could stay out somewhere that weekend, let it settle in.

To one of the above: Used a condom, she isnt on the pill or the injection thing, If this isnt what it seems im gonna persuade her to start on them.

It's just bad timing right now, I feel it'll muck up both of our lives, and give the child an unfair upbringing. Hope this isnt what it seems, learnt a valuable lesson from it. D;

[Ali]

It sounds as if she isn't pregnant, because some females have a period on the same day every month for exactly a week and they can miss a couple of months in a row and then go back to it.

But, however, I think you should get her a test.