*sigh* Self Harm

[Bielby2ooo]

STOP BEEN EMO??

[Revis]

STOP BEEN EMO??

WOW! NEVER THOUGHT OF THAT

No, usually I'm a happy person and only recently I've gone down hill again. I don't really have a problem with my friends seeing my old scars because they helped me beat it last time, it's just them seeing new cuts which is bad.

[JT-Fan]

Self harming is very common and it can be helped. Its important for you to find another way to take out your frustration, a simple way of just stabbing pencils in play-doh is a easy method. When you feel angry throw pillows, hit pillows just do not harm your body. I understand that is easier said than done. It's just important to think before you do anything. Just take out anger elsewhere, attacking things such as pillows,clothes even clay is really helpful.
Also call helplines such as childline they will really help.
I hope this has helped you. And good luck, take it from someone who knows this is not an easy thing to get over. When people start questioning the scars on your arm/wrist I am sure that you will start following what I am saying.
Good luck and stay safe.

[Kyle.tk]

ok lee, what you need to do is one of a few things

1. take that blade and stab it through a wall, preferrably one with a picture of your worst enemy.
2. get or spend more time with a girlfriend. Even though girls smell, im sure a good laugh with girl could help

[Revis]

ok lee, what you need to do is one of a few things

1. take that blade and stab it through a wall, preferrably one with a picture of your worst enemy.
2. get or spend more time with a girlfriend. Even though girls smell, im sure a good laugh with girl could help

Women cause more problems
No, I put the blade somewhere and I can't remember where.
It's like, i've really wanted to cut all week but I haven't and i'm becoming a moody, irritable douchbag...

[Billabong]

Whoever said "stop being an emo" you cannot solve depression by saying one day oh I dont want to be an emo any more I want to be a happy chav and put on a burberry cap, what the heck will that solve.

I agree with other guys saying punch bag or clay maybe.

Also you really need to try and get some friends, they dont have to be like best buddies even, but just go out with them sometime. Im sure you would have a laugh and enjoy yourself, bowling maybe something like that.

One day your self harm could kill you, if you nicked an artiery and no-one knew you could die. It might go down as suicide. Imagine how your friends, and especially family would feel. THEY WOULD BE DEVESTATED. Its not just an effect on you but other people.
Think about what could happen and also try the friends idea of mine.
Its worth a try isn't it

[FrozenWhisper]

Self harm isn't the answer. I got really obbessive over someone I could never have and try self harm. Belive me it doesn't help anything. Next time you feel like self harming get a block of ice and put it on your arm. It numbs you but DOESN'T do damage.

[Chaz]

Erm, try not to get hat hair?

[FrozenWhisper]

Erm, try not to get hat hair?

I hate hat hair

[Chaz]

I hate hat hair

Well, i read the thread thing, and he put 'i had hat hair, then one of my mates told a girl, so i harmed myself'

All because of hat hair?