Do looks matter?

[Tash.]

I personally dont let looks affect me majorly. Of course they account for a small margin of who I like, but to be honest I cant like somebody who is really fit + is an awful person. I have liked someone before who is not what people would call fit.. and their looks just didnt enter into it with me.

[8Freak8]

I think the reason that I normally fancy people who are a bit good looking is because you might not want to go up to a girl who is a *****r and start chatting to her so you wouldn't get to know her enough to fancy her.

So I guess what I'm saying is if its a random girl that you're pulling then looks matter, but if its someone you've known for a while you get to know their personality and then you fancy them.

[Wayne]

Well, I think looks don't really matter, but I wouldn't like to date an ugly girl with a great personality.

Anywho, dating a girl with pretty looks and a great personality is what I like.

[baby-wabbit123]

well i dont think it really matters to me coz ive never fancied ani1 jus for their looks but i have to admitt that if they are ugly then i find it hard to get to know them becoz i think that first impressions count the most.

i am very lucky tho coz my bf is gorgeous and has a great personality

xx

[mynameishelen!]

Looks do matter for me.
I don't think i could go out with someone ugly. I know it sounds shallow, but meh tis the truth.
and i'm usually first attracted by looks.

but they obviously gotta have a nice personality too.

[GJay]

I fall for people's personality not their looks. I've noticed that if you fall for looks, you get the complete ******* like I did once lol. Matt Willis look alike, very dishy...awfully horrible personality though >

[Ostinato]

Well, I think looks don't really matter, but I wouldn't like to date an ugly girl with a great personality.

Anywho, dating a girl with pretty looks and a great personality is what I like.

You obviously do think looks matter, but just don't wanna sound shallow. You completely contradicted yoruself by saying 'oh looks don't matter, but I wouldn't go out with someone ugly even if they had the greatest personality ever'. Lol, don't get me wrong, I don't give a damn what sorta people you like to date and what you go for in someone, but I wish you would just be honest rather than look stupid by contradicting yourself.

Looks do matter for me.
I don't think i could go out with someone ugly. I know it sounds shallow, but meh tis the truth.
and i'm usually first attracted by looks.

but they obviously gotta have a nice personality too.

Thank god someones honest.

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Personally, I've never really dated a 'minging' girl as such... I think what attracts you to someone, to get to know what their personality is like - is their looks. They dont have to be drop dead gorgeus, but with some people there's just something that makes them stand out, and makes youw ant to get to know them more.
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[ilovejordan]

To be honest you've all gotta admit looks do matter to you no matter how much. If theres this ugly person your not going to get close to them etc are you? Its just the way life is. For example if you met someone say if your a guy and you met Jennifer aniston [i think thats her name] you'd go crazy and be constantly trying to talk to her.

Looks do matter to me but i think on the internet its better because you know someones personality before looks. But yea if theres this mingin guy in rl i won't talk to him like i do a good looking guy i know that sounds shallow but its true.

[Ostinato]

To be honest you've all gotta admit looks do matter to you no matter how much. If theres this ugly person your not going to get close to them etc are you? Its just the way life is. For example if you met someone say if your a guy and you met Jennifer aniston [i think thats her name] you'd go crazy and be constantly trying to talk to her.

Looks do matter to me but i think on the internet its better because you know someones personality before looks. But yea if theres this mingin guy in rl i won't talk to him like i do a good looking guy i know that sounds shallow but its true.

Exactly. It's how life works. Unfortunate, but true.

However, I disagree with the internet thing, as I don't think you can get to know someones true personality via the internet, you only get to see what they want to you and what they tell you.

[velvet]

Looks matter,
It's the sad truth.
Human judge by looks as if you walk down the street you look at people and judge them even if you never seem them before or spoke to them.
If you find someone who looks attractive, you'll want to get to know them, rather than someone who doesn't have it in looks.
But I believe there is someone for everyone. People have different tastes so what may not appeal to one person, will to another, so in the end everything works out.
My boyfriend isn't the sort of person i'd walk down the street and fancy. He's not ugly, but not my type of person, but we got to knwo eachother as friends, then I could see that acctually, I found him really attractive, because his great personality helped me to look deeper. Now I find him totally attractive S;
So yeah, looks and personality both count.
But without looks theres not usually a good first impression so you don't get the chance to know the person.